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@zippylef: DH is military (so so soon to being former military!) and he does 0% of the chores and I do 100%. When I was working, too, I did 60 or 75% ish.
When I go back to work he will be in charge of:
laundry (maybe... we'll see!)
trash (definitely, with no negotiations)
general tidying of the room with the TV (where he tends to pile up crap)
2-3 dinners per week
cleaning the shower

I will do the rest (mop/diaper laundry/vacuum/dishes/the other days of cooking/dust/clean glass surfaces/tidy kid stuff).

I do laundry, cleaning, and either dishes or cooking. DH puts DD to bed while I tidy up. He always leaves his shoes out and never puts dirty towels in laundry but he does okay. I'd say its 80/20 but that's fair because he works really hard

It's pretty evenly split sometimes I feel bad about it because I'm the one home, but DH says he doesn't mind and I think secretly he feels a little bad I'm a SAHM because I don't have a choice, so he says he wants to make my life easy.

He take out the trash, does the dishes on his days off, picks up the living room after DS goes to bed and he does his own laundry.
Occasionally he'll clear the table and clean the whole kitchen too. He'll make dinner if I ask him to.

But I do the floors, bathroom, my laundry as well as Cobi's and bedding/towels, dining room, clutter/organization, deep cleaning and also paying bills and running errands.

I do most of it, at least inside. What I find the biggest help sometimes though is when he tends to DS once he's home from work so I can actually get things done. I don't mind doing most of it but it's really hard to do all of it during the day while I'm the only caregiver for DS.

I'm a SAHM but my main chore is to take care of DD 24hrs a day. DH does 99% of chores. DD has a strong preference for me and cries when i leave her site (aka separation anxiety that has been going strong for few months now), so it's hard to do too many chores.

Dh still does a lot of chores. It's just not that easy for me to get things done with a baby here, and he gets that. He's had to watch her and do one task, like laundry, and even that was hard for him, so he knows that running the whole house is tough.

I do laundry and cooking and picking up around the house, but he takes out the trash and recycling. And if I need help with laundry or its still going when he gets home or it needs to be folded, hell help or well sit there together and fold it.

I have a strong belief, and dh does too, that just because we don't get paid being sahms doesn't mean were not working!

@zippylef: I am sorry you are stuck as a SAHM. It's rough because military men don't seem to understand that even if you aren't working every second, you are working all 24 hours of the day and you are on call. It is tough to take care of everything!

DH works a lot & also has classes, so I end up doing most of housework. There are a few things that he does, like take out the trash, clean the garage, and wash the dog, but I'll take care of the laundry, dishes, kitchen, etc.