K turns 6 months this week. Today has been unusual to say the least. Going to the bathroom, walking into the kitchen, leaving her alone in the car seat for a second while starting the engine for A/C, and waking up alone after a nap = ALL these regular occurrences have garnered full-blown crying and shaking, trembling arms and tight fists, and ginormous tears today when K couldn't see me for a short while.
I thought it had to do with teething (as that started this past weekend too), but after some searching old HB threads, I think we are dealing with the beginning of the separation anxiety phase?! Seems pretty common, but most of the threads had little advice/responses beyond "baby-wearing" and talking loudly.
If you/your LO experienced separation anxiety, I'd love to hear about it. How long did it last? What helps ease it? If you SAH, what do you do? It's impossible that I am with her every single waking minute. Restroom breaks were AWFUL today as she was wailing and flailing around for the minute or two I was gone. Her normally beloved jumperoo seemed to make her SO MAD when she couldn't see me in her line of vision at any time.
Is it easier for WOHM's since they are already used to not seeing mom round-the-clock?
During the times where she is really crying hysterically I just found ways to bring her with me most places, even if it makes smaller tasks take longer. (Eta- I figure, if she trusts that I'll come back, I'll comfort her, etc., she will get over the separation anxiety in a healthy way and be less fussy eventually...) It's hard but it goes in phases like anything else. One day we'll miss this.
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