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We use Google and just add both our accounts and have different colors. I think it's "easier" to set up on a desk top first but I'm pretty sure you can do it on your phone too.

DH and I each have our own Google calendars. And we invite each other to things when necessary. So I put in things like my hair appointments, OB appointments, etc. But I only invite him when he needs/wants to come, like to the ultrasounds. If he makes plans with his family he puts it in his calendar and then invites me to it.

we both use iCal. we used to use google but switched at some point. ical and google sometimes have glitches when you uses both, so we made the switch.

I have multiple calendars within ical, and most are shared with dh but not all--like, I have one that I call "workload" where I can plan out when I'm working on what if I have multiple deadlines, etc, and he def doesn't need to see that much detail dh and I each have our own separate calendars, and then there's a family calendar too--so like, he sees when I have appointments/need him to watch lo, but that's a different color from events that we're going to as a family

@Mamaof2: Yes even calendars you create can be in all different colors! So it's not just different accounts.

We have a family email address (that is used for bills, stuff related to the kids, etc.) and that is the calendar that everything is put into.
That calendar is the one that our phones are linked to, so we can both add when necessary. I like that it is color coded by category. We have a category for each member of the family along with the pets and a bunch of other catergories:)

We use google calendar and each have separate calendars that are shared with each other. We still invite each other to events we are both going to just so we are reminded a bit better than just verbally or via texting. It is pretty easy and handy. We set it up on the computer first. I don't know how to do it from the phone. I could never find the "share calendar" feature while on my phone.

We use google. Never had a problem syncing between Android and iOS.