So LO is scheduled to have her one year appointment this upcoming Friday. I've also posted that my aunt is in the final stages of her cancer and expected to go soon. She was given two weeks to live and Tuesday will finish those two weeks. I hate to think about little logistical things but I'm trying to make decisions before I'm emotional and can't think them through.

There's a chance we'll have to leave Friday to go to Michigan for the funeral (we're in NC). If we have to leave earlier, obviously, there's no issue. My brother said he's okay with LO going to her appointment and then leaving to start our trip. Is this a good idea though with a five to six day trip? I know some kids have worse reactions to their one year shots than others. If I have to reschedule, we have to make the appointment with someone other than the main doctor she's been seeing this first year (who we love). So that's my hesitation. But I don't want her to feel bad our entire trip.

What would you do?