Let's say YOU cheated on or abused your SO, would your SO stay? Let's say your SO was unhappy, would your SO suck it up and stay?
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DH is more committed to the idea of being married forever-good, bad or indiferent. I think my husband's tolerance for dysfunction is higher than mine, but at some point I think divorce is an option for him too. I do not think cheating is an automatic dealbreaker for him.
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Both he and I are adamant that divorce is not an option. Especially now that we have a child. Neither of us are the cheating type, but I think he would want to work through it if I did.
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He's in the same boat I am- cheating or abuse, we're out. Unhappiness means counseling, but if counseling didn't work, then we're out.
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If I was having an on-going affair or if I was abusing our son it would be an option. Cheating once is not an automatic deal-breaker (for either of us).
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Unfortuntately I don't think he would. He is the suffer in silence type and never shows emotion. I think he could go forever with is feeling inside of him
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DH would leave me in a heart beat if I cheated on him. I would do the same though.
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Dh would leave me if I cheated. That is a deal breaker for him. But, I would never cheat, so not a problem.
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My husband isn't a doormat. If I cheated, our marriage would be over. He was cheated on by a previous girlfriend and it really screwed with him. His theory is that you don't cheat on someone that you love and I completely agree with that. It's the ultimate sign of disrespect so who would want to stay in a relationship with someone who clearly doesn't give a crap about them, ya know?
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Divorce is def something DH is more open to, in general, than I am.
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@HabesBabe: This is pretty much exactly how we feel too.
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He's very much into the divorce is not an option, but he says he wouldn't tolerate me cheating. Not sure what he would do if I actually cheated. But I know I wouldn't, so it's a nonissue.
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