The post by Mr Bee asking about where our money goes made me wonder how much other people spend. I'm in NYC and it is so expensive here compared to where I grew up. Since this is an anonymous board I'm okay saying I pay in the range of $20,000 a month! It is so insane how expensive it is here! Where I use to live in the midwest we could have a huge mansion with acres for that money! My husband has no interest in living there though sadly. So make me jealous if you live in the midwest or anywhere else! What do you pay for mortgage/rent each month?