Question for you ladies: have any of you dealt with making the decision to stop TTC for a time? Hubby and I have been trying to conceive for the last 14 months, and the whole process is extremely difficult.

Our next step is to move on to treatments and monitored cycles, and we're starting to feel as though maybe the timing's not right. Maybe the reason we're not getting pregnant is because God's got a different plan for us right now.

I guess I'm just looking for anyone else who's had to make the decision to stop trying. What were your deciding factors? Did you go through a grieving process? Did you just give up cold turkey, or phase out the charting, OPKing, etc.

I'm so unsure. And it breaks my heart to thing about stopping...but it might be the right thing to do.