About 2 weeks ago my Husband and I told my in laws that we were going through infertility testing. My father in law promptly responded with "well, enjoy the practice" . I remember I told him not to say things like that, but I don't think he really got it. I was just so mad that he was saying that to me in that moment, that I couldn't respond properly.

Anyways, I was thinking about telling them tonight that if they wanted to offer us support they could offer hugs, a shoulder to cry on, prayers, or an ear to listen to us vent our frustrations, but that unsolicited advice like " enjoy the practice" is insensitive and hurtful. I'm pretty sure my husband will be opposed to this...which is upsetting...but I really need to get this off my chest because it's been bothering me for the last 2 weeks.

What would you guys do? What have you done in this situation?