I'm not really sure if I'm looking for advice or just support, but here is my issue..

I have two weeks left on my current birth control and after that I'm stopping completely so DH and I can start TTC. I understand that it could take years potentially and there's no use worrying about future plans but I am worrying anyway.

My best friend is about to get engaged and she's already set a date for January 2013 and asked me to be a bridesmaid which I happily accepted. The wedding is going to be in CA and we live in NYC which has started to worry me a little. What if I get pregnant right away and either have a newborn or am in my 3rd trimester during her wedding? I am so worried I won't be able to go either because I can't fly or I don't want to leave a newborn with a babysitter.

Has anyone else experienced this problem? I know if I were reading this post I would just think "Duh, don't worry about it until it happens" , but I am worried!