How early/late did you deliver your second (or later) child in comparison with your first? Anecdotally, it seems like second children come earlier than first. I’m very newly pregnant with #2 and DD came fast and furious at 38w5d.
How early/late did you deliver your second (or later) child in comparison with your first? Anecdotally, it seems like second children come earlier than first. I’m very newly pregnant with #2 and DD came fast and furious at 38w5d.
wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts
I was induced with DD1 at 39 weeks, but at that point I wasn't dilated at all or anything. With DD2 she came by herself at 37 weeks.
watermelon / 14467 posts
DD1: Came on her own at 40w3d. Labor was 15 hours.
DD2: Came on her own at 41w4d. Labor was 22 hours.
nectarine / 2262 posts
I'm very concerned/curious about this. I am also newly pregnant with #2 so it's a long way off. My water broke at 6:30am at 39w6d with baby #1. Got to the hospital at 8:30 am in a lot of pain and he was born at 1pm. So labor was like 6.5 hours from water breaking to baby, really like 4.5 hours of contractions/pain. Soooo I'm obviously worried that baby #2 will be born in like an hour or something.
pear / 1728 posts
@MrsADS: I have the same concerns – sounds like our births were very similar! My water broke at 1:15 and DD was born at 5:45 after 10 mins of pushing. I’m afraid of not having enough time for an epidural...
nectarine / 2797 posts
LO1: 40w6d 9 hour labor
LO2: 38w6d 4 hour labor - and only 9 min at the hospital so no time for epidural!
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
1st born on due date.
2nd 5 weeks early.
I was not prepared at all!
hostess / papaya / 10219 posts
DS1- 40+3 and 13 hours labor
DS2- 40 weeks, induced, 7 hours labor
eggplant / 11716 posts
LO1--1 week early
LO2-12 days early. Both times I suspected I Od early so my dates were wrong anyway.
LO1--Long labor, over 24 hours from early labor to delivery
LO2-- 2.5 hours from first is-this-something? pains to baby out.
Soooo.....it can be really different.
hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts
T - delivered spontaneously at 38+4 (on bed rest for early dilation though from 30-37 weeks). In hospital for about 12 hours before he was born.
R - induced at 38+2 due to size (on modified rest due to contractions from 30-36 weeks). Water broken at 1 pm, no pitocin, born at 10 pm.
G - delivered spontaneously at 38+1 (HOWEVER I'm fairly certain I was only 37+3 due to conception timing. No bedrest at all in pregnancy...had tons of contractions in third trimester though). Arrived at hospital at 5:30 pm right when contractions were becoming intolerable, born at 9 pm.
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
First: 39w1d - 14 hours of labor
Second: 37w - 9 hours of labor
pear / 1586 posts
First - induced at 41+1, 13 hours
Second - went into labor at 40+5, 16 hours from first contractions (but only 5 hours at hospital)
pear / 1548 posts
1st- 40w4d- 24 hours from first contraction to having him. Took one hour to push.
2nd- 40w1d (only 35 minutes past midnight and barely missed his due date!)- 9 hours from first contractions to having him. I pushed him out in 3 contractions.
nectarine / 2951 posts
Labor for both my boys came naturally.
DS1 38w6d
DS2 38w4d
Both active labors lasted around 8 hours. Pushing for #1 took 1 hour, for #2 took 15 minutes.
clementine / 874 posts
1st 38w3d
2nd 39w5d
Sooo, despite my not so secret wishes that baby two would be fairly early too, she came just a couple days before her due date.
cantaloupe / 6171 posts
I was induced both times but for very different reasons and at different times:
LO1 I was induced at 37 weeks due to low fluid. Hadn't dilated at all
LO2 induced at 41 weeks. I was pregnant an entire month longer!! I'd dilated to 2 inches a couple weeks before but then stalled and wasn't progressing; turns out cord was wrapped around her head so she wasn't going to budge on her own.
nectarine / 2821 posts
I shouldn't read this thread, it's going to give me false hope in the last weeks of pregnancy!
pear / 1767 posts
Kid #1: 38 weeks exactly
Kid #2: 39w6d (induced the day before her due date due to low amniotic fluid)
My doctors had me worried that #2 was going to arrive several weeks early because I was pretty dilated and effaced at 36 weeks.
grapefruit / 4988 posts
Kid 1 came at 39 weeks exactly. Water broke in bed, 8 hrs labor.
Kid 2 came at what OB said was 38w5d but I think it was actually also 39w exactly. Water broke in bed, 8 hrs labor.
Sounds exactly the same on paper although I actually had to get pitocin with kid 2 (or else they threatened to send me home from the hospital). He arrived maybe 1 hr after they gave me the pitocin, so it might have been longer if I had pushed to go naturally.
persimmon / 1390 posts
DD1: Induced at 40+5, delivered 10hrs after first contraction (18 minutes pushing)
DD2: 40 exactly; got to the hospital after a night of irregular and bearable contractions at 7:05am and was only 2cm, water broke on own about 8:20am while walking the halls, first really intense contraction at 8:55am, delivered at 9:53am (20-ish minutes pushing). Prepared for fast and furious if we have a third--especially after dilating so quickly!
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
DD1 was born one day before my due date. Long slow Labor but it didn't really intensify until the end.
DD2 was born on her due date, super fast birth. Less than four hours from "hmm maybe this is Labor" to baby in arms. No time for an epidural but I definitely didn't need one since it was so fast (and I didn't have one with my first anyway).
@mrsbubbletea: I was convinced my second would be early since "second babies always come earlier!" So when my due date came around I felt like she was already late! But at least Labor was way faster.
pomegranate / 3438 posts
DS1: 2.5 weeks before due date. 14.5 hours of active labor, 3 hours of pushing (and forceps assist)
DS2: 9 days early. 5.5 hours of active labor, less than 5 minutes of pushing (nurses almost had to deliver).
nectarine / 2243 posts
for those of you posting...did you at least have some idea that baby might come early? Like at your doc checks...were you dilated and effaced and all of those things that might suggest labor was happening earlier than the due date?
I was induced at 41 weeks and still wasn't dilated or effaced on induction day so i sorta knew baby wasn't making an appearance early
With number 2 i feel so in the dark!
persimmon / 1390 posts
@Littlebit7: Based on the positioning of my cervix, my midwives felt I was likely to need to be induced again and that I was possibly someone who just doesn't dilate on her own. The one who delivered me literally said "Are you kidding?" when she walked into the room and saw it was me in very active labor. I had prodromal labor beginning around 36 weeks but my midwives said that doesn't predict early delivery. I wasn't dilated any more than 1/2 inch with #2 until the day of and none of the other things either. With #1 I was 2 inches for a few weeks. I feel like #2 was sort of an anomaly birth: it went against everyone's expectations and I had zero indication it was coming. The day before was my first day of maternity leave and I was looking forward to 2 weeks of being home with my daughter and relaxing and making freezer meals before delivering. I spent the entire day walking around the zoo so maybe I forced myself into labor!
eggplant / 11716 posts
@Littlebit7: with my first, there were no signs. I never had even the Braxton Hicks stuff. I had my 39 week appointment a day early, and I was 1 cm dilated, but the doctor said that doesn't really mean anything and it could still be weeks. But I was in labor 24 hours later.
The second time, I started having braxton hicks/prodromal labor around 36 weeks, so I asked to be checked at my 37 week appointment. My practice doesn't typically do checks until 38-39 weeks, but I told them I was carrying so low I wondered if I was already dilated. I was already dilated to a 3. A week later, I was a 3.5, and I had been having serious prodromal labor that entire week. I told my OB I was having trouble sleeping and he suggested I drink a glass of wine at night "to relax the uterus" so I could sleep, haha.
The next morning, I went to work and finally the prodromal labor turned into real labor and then it all happened SUPER fast from there.
But my water never broke either time.
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
My water broke at exactly 39 weeks with both. Baby 1 water broke at 9pm and had her the next after at 2pm (4 pushes). Baby 2 woke up at 4:15am, and realized I had a slow leak and contractions 7-8 mins apart, and had her at 12:08 (2 pushes).
pomegranate / 3904 posts
Baby 1: 35+4
Baby 2: 36+3
Baby 3: 38+0
So each of mine came later than the last. I will never go to 38 weeks again though, because I had a partial placental abruption with my third, and they have you deliver earlier
persimmon / 1345 posts
1st: 41+2- had to be induced, 24 hour labor and ended up with csec bc she refused to come out.
2nd: 37 weeks- contractions started at 2am. Got to hospital around 3. Baby was born by 5. No time for epidural bc he came so fast.
3rd: praying I don't have this baby on the side of the road somewhere.
persimmon / 1345 posts
@Littlebit7
With my second. I actually had a appointment that morning and midwife checked me. She said I was closed as can be and wasn't going into labor anytime soon and had me schedule my next few appointments and confirmed the potential repeat csection date. I went into labor that night. She wasn't the midwife on duty when I had the baby at 5 am but she came in to hospital at 7 for shift change. She said, "this has never happened to me" haha
pomegranate / 3904 posts
@misolee: with my first two I had appointments the day of and was closed up too! My first one, my water was already broken, but she checked me and I was “maybe” a fingertip lol.
pineapple / 12053 posts
both exactly 39w3d: DD1 less than 7 hours, DD2 less than 4 hours.
pomegranate / 3921 posts
DD1: Born at 39+6, 7 hours of labor (1.5 hours of that was pushing)
DD2: Born at 40+3, 2 hours of labor (6 minutes of pushing, according to my doula's notes )
nectarine / 2262 posts
@littlebit7 with my fast labor, I had actually had tons of contractions starting about 23 wks and was on bedrest for a while for a shortened/funneling cervix. I mean nonstop contractions and baby was soooo low. Baby ended up not coming till 39wks, at my appt the week before I think I was dilated like 1.5cm? Personally, I think all my contractions/shortened cervix contributed to my labor being so fast.
pineapple / 12566 posts
1st - 39+4 - 12ish hours of L&D - epidural
2nd - 37+2 - 45 min of L&D - no time for pain relief!
grapefruit / 4418 posts
DD1 spontaneous at 38+1 - 15 hours of labor (pushed for 1.5)
DD2 induced at 38+5 and barely 1cm when we started. 4 hours from start of pinto in, pushed 3 times. Went from 3cm to crowning while getting my epidural. She was comfy in there, but once they broke my water she flung herself outta there!
cherry / 223 posts
DD1 - 39w2d - about 20 hours of labor
DD2 - 40w5d - about 5 hours of labor
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