I am trying to decide whether or not I want to announce our pregnancy and future arrival on Facebook and have been struggling with the decision, as silly as that may sound. We are 19w today and while all of our close friends and family know, we have held off putting our news on Facebook for a few reasons.

We are now debating whether or not we should put up an announcement at some point, or maybe even just post a picture as I am beginning to definitely look pregnant (!), but I don't know why I am struggling with this decision.

While I don't know anyone who is actively trying without success (or at least who has shared this with me(, I am nervous to potentially offend a "friend" who might be having a difficult time in the baby department. I know that when things have been difficult for me in other areas of life, seeing someone's happy announcement was not always what I wanted to see, even though I was still happy for them. Also, I guess I am just trying to come up with something clever (and not cheesy!) to say, if I said anything at all.

The truth of the matter is that all people who should know already do, and I am trying to decide what my reasons are for sharing in such a public way, if at all.

I feel like this is a trivial personal debate in the grand scheme of things and is taking up way too much of my productive time! Has anyone else struggled with this type of issue?