My friend got married in Feb and she and her husband have always planned on starting the TTC process in January 2013. She is 34 and he is 40 and he has 2 kids from a previous marriage...one is 10 and the other is 5. The 10 year old has special needs and is going through a lot and needs extra attention right now. My friend, her DH and his ex wife are all trying to meet his needs but things have been really stressful financially and emotionally.

My friend's DH recently told her that he really wants to push back TTC indefinitely and she is crushed. She says she understands why but she still finds herself getting mad and doesn't know how to handle her sadness and frustration. Has anyone gone through anything similar? I would love to give her advice...I told her about the boards here but she doesn't seem interested yet!