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@LCTBQE: Haha true. I was originally supposed to have my u/s this past Monday, but since I know my conception date, we probably wouldn't have seen anything. Hoping tomorrow is late enough.
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@catlady: congrats! Just as a FYI I didn't get a bfp until 12-13 dpo this time, and it was super faint! This was the latest bfp I've had, so I really think it just depends.
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@LCTBQE: realized i never replied! The concern was that there's sometimes a pseudo sac with an ectopic, but my dr is feeling more confident it's a real sac. Going back again today. So nervous!
Oh and I'm also lurking on the August board! I've had to excuse myself from two date boards already and really don't want to do it again.
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@Zbug: Oooh I'd be so excited if you both joined! That's of course assuming I don't have to excuse MYself..
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@catlady: Yay! Congrats!
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@Zbug: so many good wishes for your appointment!
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@JoJoGirl: I'd love to join that board, but can't even go there in my head right now
zen-face. too busy zenning out. I'm glad you pushed your appointment back--seems like 6w is the bare minimum for seeing anything. good luck tomorrow -
@LCTBQE: thank you!!! If I were smart I wouldn't have joined either. And after the drama on my mc thread I think I'll just hide out there for a while..
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@JoJoGirl: wishing you luck!! I remember your lady saying the number 3 right?! I am hoping this is what she meant!
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@catlady: oh wow - amazing news!
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@JoJoGirl: dude, that thread was just bizarre. Seems like there are a bunch of us in a similar boat due in August. I've appreciated your support, and have my fingers and toes crossed for your ultrasound tomorrow.
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@Nutella: OMG I can't believe you remember that!!!!!! She said we'd get pregnant with a "3", not knowing if that meant 3 weeks, 3 months etc. I realized a while ago that probably meant third cycle since that's how Ttc ladies mark time. And I was right
@Silva: haha right? I thought I was crazy and missing something. And I appreciate the support, too
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Heartbeat!!
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@Zbug: YEAH!!!!!
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@Zbug: awesome!!!!
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Lots of good news on this thread!
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@Zbug: YYYEEEESSSSSSS
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@JoJoGirl: that thread just blew up! I can't believe how many people were getting so offended - seriously shitting me over here! I consider anyone who hasn't had a mc insanely lucky and I would hope they do too!
I'm worried because my 'lady' (haha) said it was going to be like '22' whatevers, so I'm terrified I'll need 22 cycles to conceive again. Argh!
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@Zbug: yay for
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@JoJoGirl: @Nutella: I want to know who this person is... I need some guidance.
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@jaguar: I'll wall you- remind me if I forget!
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@jaguar: I went to see an amazing psychic medium a few months ago after the MC & d&c. It was mind blowing - she was telling me about the baby we lost, and was able to tell me what she looked like too...among many other things in my life. I was a crying mess by the end but she made me feel at peace because she said she's coming back to us.... I can wall you her details! I tried to be dubious and cynical but she knew too much for me to laugh it off.
I think @JoJoGirl had someone over in the US though - who does online consults!
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@Nutella: I know, right?! I have NEVER been so confused by drama on this site.
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@Zbug: yes!!
The entire internet is pissing me off today (except for select corners like you guys!). I don't know how to navigate people not understanding the gravity of loss and people who seem like they are flaunting their super lucky pregnancies. I know a lot of it is my own attitude but damn I wish people could be less tone deaf.
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And I realize how bitter I sound.
Having a tough few days -- but I'm back to appointments in a week so I think when I get the TTC ball rolling again I'll be less grumpy.
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@Zbug: yay!!
@jojogirl: that thread was ridiculous. If I told a friend IRL they were lucky for never having an mc and they tried to disagree, we wouldn't be friends. Ugh. People who haven't had one really don't get it. Hoping all goes well for you tomorrow!
I'm hanging in at 14 weeks tomorrow. Feeling crampy which makes me nervous but Google tells me it's just things stretching.
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@MrsDragon: sorry you're having a rough time. I would have days where I was just so grouchy. Hoping your appointments get you some answers.
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@MrsDragon: I have days like this too. Just go with it, and you'll be back again tomorrow.. it's all we can do!
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@MrsDragon: ugh, I know. hope you are hanging in there as best you can. I've been thinking about you
@Mrs. Champagne: I read that during pregnancy the uterus has to expand to 1000x its original size!
no experience but would be surprised if you didn't feel it.
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@MrsDragon: I hear ya x 1000 xx
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@Nutella: I could use some of that! I am feeling totally lost.
@JoJoGirl: Thank you!!!
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@LCTBQE: any ragey plans for NYE? We are seeing fireworks and drinking more moet
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@Mrs. Champagne: hurray for 14w! Very happy for you - you give me hope
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@Zbug: Great news! Yay!
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@Nutella: that sounds fun!! might have a small glass of moet too
what I actually want to do is read a novel in bed and lights out by 9:30, but I might go see a Smiths/Mos cover band and leave at like 12:02 and be full of regret that I missed my bedtime. I'm really jamming on senior citizen lifestyles these days (not kidding). I think if I lived in the southern hemisphere like you and it was the middle of summer right now I would be WAY more into NYE. fireworks are awesome but not the same in winter.
Does anyone else have actual plans for this?
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@Nutella: Hanging out with our IVF friends and saying good riddance to another rubbish year.... with a LOT of drinkies.
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Thank you all so much!!!
I had to go back and read more of that thread. WTH? People are crazy.
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This probably has a lot to do with my current shitty attitude but really -- I would much rather be a unicorn, even one feeling upset about being called that, than me, right now. And I was a major unicorn with my first, and I can say now that I did not get it at all. Now that I'm on the other side I want to kick former me.
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@MrsDragon: there's nothing wrong with bitterness. Sometimes you just have to feel all those negative feelings. We're all thinking of you!
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Thank you, @MrsKoala: and I'm sorry for bringing down the mood of the thread! I am sincerely happy for everyone who is pregnant in here! But that thread was part of what broke my brain today. Bleh.
zen-face. too busy zenning out. I'm glad you pushed your appointment back--seems like 6w is the bare minimum for seeing anything. good luck tomorrow 
no experience but would be surprised if you didn't feel it.
what I actually want to do is read a novel in bed and lights out by 9:30, but I might go see a Smiths/Mos cover band and leave at like 12:02 and be full of regret that I missed my bedtime. I'm really jamming on senior citizen lifestyles these days (not kidding). 
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