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  1. Mrs. Champagne

    coconut / 8483 posts

    @delight: line for sure.

  2. Crystal

    grapefruit / 4028 posts

    @Shantuck: I totally understand that feeling. ❤

    @Nutella: hugs, friend. Does she know about your situation?

    @winniebee: thank you. ❤️ how are you feeling?

    I realized today my edd is a week away... I'm supposed to O at the end of this week, and I'm really struggling with so many feelings. I'm on Clomid, so I don't want to skip this cycle, but thinking about having to try this week makes me want to cry. I can't believe we are still TTC after all this time...

  3. Nutella

    persimmon / 1045 posts

    @Hopeandjoy629: thank you lovely, I know it's going to be soon we get to hold our rainbow babes! Just want the journey there to be as easy as possible. Wishing you lots of luck & peace too!

    @Crystal: hugs to you too I'm sad for you re the due date, I know that must be so tough. Mixed bag of emotions, but you gotta be in to win, right?! Sending

  4. Nutella

    persimmon / 1045 posts

    @delight: wow i see it too!! Crossing everything for you!! I remember my DH was relieved it didn't come to that after we got bfp with our LO sending lots of good thoughts your way!

  5. Nutella

    persimmon / 1045 posts

    @Crystal: and to reply your post. My friend does know the situation but as she has never had a loss like that, doesn't quite understand...though she does her best. It's hard though, I'm not sure I'm up for weekly updates just yet my fingers are crossed for you though, esp this cycle. X

  6. AprilFool

    nectarine / 2591 posts

    @Crystal: Sending you

  7. delight

    pomelo / 5326 posts

    @Nutella: @Mrs. Champagne: thanks ladies!
    @Crystal: Thinking of you this week. Hang in there.

  8. Shantuck

    pear / 1767 posts

    @Crystal: I'm sorry. Due dates are tough. I'm glad you are back on the Clomid. I think I remember you saying that Clomid helped you get your positives in the past. Hopefully you can do something distracting on your due date to take your mind off of things.

  9. catlady

    grapefruit / 4988 posts

    @Crystal: I'm so sorry. Best of luck this week and be good to yourself.

  10. mrsmacandcheese

    blogger / clementine / 985 posts

    @delight: totally a line!
    @Crystal: so much love to you. I'm supposed to O this weekend too -- cycle buddies. Sending you peace and strength and lots of good thoughts.

  11. winniebee

    hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts

    @Crystal: the gearing up to do it all over again is so hard. Due dates...yeah. They suck. I hope you can plan something fun for this weekend and this is YOUR month! I'm alright - I think my lines are finally getting darker so I have a teeny tiny bit of hope.

  12. stiletto_mom

    persimmon / 1183 posts

    Hi everyone!

    I miscarried over the weekend and had an ultrasound yesterday. Results are clear and good

    So we'll be back on the TTC train as soon as I stop bleeding!

  13. Shantuck

    pear / 1767 posts

    @stiletto_mom: Welcome but I'm so sorry for the loss that brought you here.

  14. catlady

    grapefruit / 4988 posts

    @stiletto_mom: I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to this group. Hope you are taking care of yourself. Hugs.

  15. winniebee

    hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts

    @stiletto_mom: So very sorry for your loss

  16. mrsmacandcheese

    blogger / clementine / 985 posts

    @stiletto_mom: I'm sorry for your loss.

  17. stiletto_mom

    persimmon / 1183 posts

    Thanks for the sympathies. Look forward to moving forward.

  18. Hopeandjoy629

    pea / 8 posts

    @stilletto_mom I am so sorry for you loss. Glad to have you here, though! Be gentle with yourself as you heal and recover.

  19. Hopeandjoy629

    pea / 8 posts

    @libbylou I am thinking about you today

  20. Shantuck

    pear / 1767 posts

    Ugh. I feel crampy and am really struggling with this positive thinking.

  21. winniebee

    hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts

    @Shantuck: thinking of you

  22. delight

    pomelo / 5326 posts

    @stiletto_mom: so sorry. Take care of yourself.
    @Shantuck: stay positive! I am crampy too. Hoping for the best.

    Took a frer and seems like a good line for 11dpo



  23. winniebee

    hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts

    @delight: that's a wonderful line.

  24. jaguar

    pomegranate / 3764 posts

    @delight: Amazing!

  25. Mrs. Champagne

    coconut / 8483 posts

    @delight: great line!!!! So happy for you.

  26. Litebrite

    cherry / 174 posts

    @delight: Awesome line!

  27. LCTBQE

    nectarine / 2461 posts

    @Crystal: @libbylou: @Nutella:

    @delight: beautiful!

    @stiletto_mom: I was so sorry to read about your m/c. hope this group is helpful to you

    @Shantuck: hang in there! the cramping is so nerve-wracking, but everything's hard at work trying its best. maybe you should move on to a new bedroom set to keep your mind off it?

  28. Shantuck

    pear / 1767 posts

    @delight: That makes me feel better. These repeat losses can really get to you!

    @LCTBQE: Not a bad idea! Its a new house and I just got my work bonus so let the decorating frenzy continue!

  29. Hopeandjoy629

    pea / 8 posts

    @delight yay! that is GREAT!!

  30. Crystal

    grapefruit / 4028 posts

    @Nutella: you are right, never gonna get anywhere unless we try. I'm still tired of trying, though! It can be really hard for people that haven't been through it yo truly understand, I'm sorry you're in a bad situation.

    @AprilFool: @delight: @catlady: thank you. ❤

    @Shantuck: my first positive we got on our own, but this last positive was due to Clomid.

    @MrsDragon: thank you. I hope we get our positive this month!

    @winniebee: you are like the most fertile person on the planet! Fx for you. Dh and I have a night away planned, but I'm afraid I'll ruin it by crying the whole time.

    @delight: that line looks great!

  31. Crystal

    grapefruit / 4028 posts

    @LCTBQE: thank you.

  32. bloved

    persimmon / 1114 posts

    @delight: what a great line!!! Congrats!!

  33. winniebee

    hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts

    @Crystal: ugh I know it's so strange -- keeping the pregnancy is a totally different story. I hope you enjoy your night away!! Good food and wine always cheers me up

  34. delight

    pomelo / 5326 posts

    @winniebee: @jaguar: @Mrs. Champagne: @Litebrite: @Hopeandjoy629: @bloved: @LCTBQE: thanks all. I'm just going to try and relax and make it through the weekend. I'll call my RE on Monday. I am having a little spotting but I always have that in pregnancy so I'm trying to ignore. I know it's out of my hands on this point.
    @Crystal: lots of love to you. Enjoy your night away

  35. JoJoGirl

    cantaloupe / 6206 posts

    @delight: Oh mama congrats!!!!! One day at a time

  36. Crystal

    grapefruit / 4028 posts

    @delight: why wait to call the RE? Remind me, are you on P?

    @winniebee: I hope this is it for you! Thanks for the well wishes, it's just going to be a tough week.

  37. delight

    pomelo / 5326 posts

    @Crystal: oh I don't know why I am waiting. I just figure I should give it some time since I'm only 12dpo. Maybe I'll call Friday and see what the next step is. I am already on P. I'm sure they want betas but the thought of betas and all the stress they bring makes me panic so I thought I'd give it a little time. At least wait til AF is missed.
    @jojogirl: thanks so much! I hope this is it.

  38. Shantuck

    pear / 1767 posts

    @delight: I'm right there with you. It feels so weird to have this information and then do nothing with it but yet with repeat losses it's hard to fully trust that this is going to happen.

  39. LibbyLou

    kiwi / 739 posts

    @Hopeandjoy629: thank you love. I did okay. A friend who shared the same due date delivered yesterday so it was nice to just rip the bandaid off one day rather than suffer through 2 days.

    Thanks for all well wishes! I need to catch up and will reply soon! 💗💗💗

  40. LibbyLou

    kiwi / 739 posts

    @Crystal: I knew you were close to me. I didn't think I would still be ttc either. It sucks. I'm sorry. I have no advice, but will be thinking of you.

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