We found out this week that we lost our 2nd baby at 8 weeks. To say I’m heartbroken is an understatement.

I’m almost 36 yrs old and after 11 years of trying, we had our daughter 18 months ago. While it was a shock to conceive her and we had stopped “trying so hard”, I had an amazing pregnancy and labor with her and she’s healthy and happy.

We want to try again after a full cycle but I’m terrified. How do you process the fears and anxiety? I’m not sure I could handle another loss but at the same time, I don’t want the fear to keep me from possibly welcoming another healthy baby.

I welcome any advice, stories and experiences. Thank you in advance!