persimmon / 1465 posts
forgot my own update!
Ummm. There is no update. Still no AF, still BFN. I am thinking I am dpo14 today, but that is approximate. I am at the point now where I am sure I am not pregnant, I just want AF to start so we can move onto the next cycle.
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
@cupcakemama: Awww, I'm sorry to hear that! But I know exactly what you mean - waiting for AF to show up just so you can start over is the worst!
Bees, I'm totally freaking out. I'm only 11DPO today, but last cycle that's when AF showed up, so I was preparing myself for the big temp drop this morning, and I didn't get it. I'm sure that just means AF will show up tomorrow instead of something, but the waiting is driving me crazy!!!
hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts
Ok, AF is expected tomorrow. The weird thing is that I usually get bad cramps before AF. No cramps yet. Also, TMI, but I still have CM. I think I usually dry up right before AF. I did use one of the pregnancy test strip this morning and it was negative. Oh, boobs are a little sore but I think boob soreness is normal before AF for me.
Maybe AF is just running late.
hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts
Ugh! Seriously, 15 min after I posted cramps started. Now it's in full force! Don't think I brought midol with me. Ugh!
pear / 1616 posts
@bluestriped bee: i'm right there with you! AF is a day late but i have a feeling i O'd late. I can start to feel signs of AF... onto month 5 for me i think...
pomegranate / 3398 posts
I'm only 6DPO and I'm going insane. It was a random positive OPK cause it happened on CD 8.I wasn't expecting a positive until right around now. So, all I want to do is be able to test or something!!!!!!
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
@bluestriped bee: @kodybear: I'm with both of you. I was expecting AF today and she hasn't shown up yet, but I'm sure she'll be here tomorrow.
coffee bean / 33 posts
So I'm 9dpo... AF due on the 6th and I promised myself I wouldn't test til she was late because of the sadness seeing just one line. I've been so crampy the last two days I though what the heck just test.. I did. BFN!!! Why do we do this to ourselves. The early testing.. And sadness that follows. sorry for the pitty-party.
pomegranate / 3225 posts
@policewife10811: I'm also 9 dpo and just telling myself no way because it's the worst, getting that negative result! I hate it.
pomegranate / 3398 posts
I POAS this morning and got a BFN I know I'm only 10DPO but I've been feeling so many things that I really thought it happened. I'm not thinking it is going to be our month. Just have to wait for AF to show up now to know for sure.
pear / 1650 posts
@Crisark: I am saying this to myself too : 10 dpo is still early. Many of my friends didn't get their BFP's until AFTER they missed their period, and by a significant amount of time too. One was two weeks AFTER missed period. Don't lose hope yet! (as I myself am ready to give up, lol)
I am 14 dpo. I have been tired of feeling tired. It's like a cold that wants to develop, but doesn't. I also have a little congestion when I cough. And my taste is off. But I think that it's "sick" related, not an "aversion" type symptom. This is my hardest tww yet because everything feels so different, and all signs seem to point to a bfp. Only I keep getting BFN's. agh. i dunno. I'm trying not to think about it. it's IMPOSSIBLE though!
pomegranate / 3398 posts
@MrsLilybugg: That's what DH is saying. He doesn't want me to test anymore. He wants me to wait until after AF doesn't show (if she doesn't). He thinks I'm stressing myself out and he doesn't want this whole process to get mechanical.
I am having serious twinges in my boobs and off and on nausea/heartburn and I've had an aversion to smells all of a sudden. I know I'm not making those things up so I just don't know.
pea / 14 posts
Hey is it too late to join the thread? I'm currently CD19 and very frustrated!
My cycles finally (at least i thought!) had regulated back to 28 days with O around 14 (which for the past 5 months has been consistent). Anyway i was sooo excited this month as my fertile days coincided with my 30th bday cruise! I brought my BBT with me on the cruise and temped every morning. However, i was having late nights, drinking, etc so i'm sure it messed a few up. I had typical symptoms of O on CD14 (O pain, CM etc - no OPK's though), however my temps the following days have not spiked so i can't confirm it. So looks like i havent O'd yet
I know that stress, travel etc can cause delayed O so i'm assuming thats it.. Also to add to my stress level, when we got back from vacay we found out our apt had been robbed so i'm assuming i won't O for a few more days at that! Hope to be in the TWW soon!
apricot / 371 posts
So I POAS this morning and got a BFN. I feel like this wasn't our cycle, but I did test a little early probably as well. Tomorrow's the first day my period could start, and I didn't want to start getting excited if it didn't show when it could just be coming 6 days later. I think I'll wait to test again until another week or so.
cherry / 108 posts
I am out, AF started last night. We probably won't try until this winter. Good luck to everyone else!
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
@MMBBrose: you're not late at all, the more the merrier! (misery during the 2ww loves company! LOL)
hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts
@kodybear: How are you doing? Did AF show for you? I'm hoping there is one more BFP for our this group! Maybe it's you?
pear / 1616 posts
@bluestriped bee: AF showed up a day later! It seems like my cycles are starting to regulate itself to pre-BC cycles (30 days+heavier period) even tho the last 4 months have been 27 days. Not sure if thats a good thing or bad thing. But onto month 5...
gonna try clearblue fertility monitor this month so hopefully that helps!
GOLD / cantaloupe / 6703 posts
@cupcakemama: I hate when that happens! The feeling of "I get it, not this month. Now let's move on" is one that sucks worse than most anything.
pomegranate / 3398 posts
I've been spotting all morning when I wipe. I'm not sure that's a good thing and I'm pretty upset about it.
I'm 11 DPO and have gotten a BFN already but was holding hope that I tested too early. That doesn't seem to be the case.
hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts
@mrsjyw: How are you doing? Isn't AF suppose to come... or not come (fingers crossed!) soon?
coffee bean / 49 posts
This was our first month, and I was more than a little disappointed to get my period two days earlier than expected! Oh well.. onto Cycle 2..
apricot / 371 posts
So I POAS this AM and got a BFP!! It was a pretty good line, but this is our first cycle and my husband hasn't read about pregnancy tests and he didn't believe me cause it wasn't as dark as the control line. So I ran out and got a digital and then he believed me! I'm so happy and feel so lucky it happened this quickly. Can't wait to go to the DR and get another confirmation. Good luck everyone! (Cycle Day 31, not sure how many days DPO)
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
I've been dying to post, but just reporting that we got our BFP on 3/9! :D:D:D congrats to all the other bees who got their BFPs this cycle!
cherry / 220 posts
I'm out Very disappointed, but trying to stay positive. I o'd 5 days earlier this cycle (on cd 30) and AF came on 12DPO instead of 10. Things are slowly starting to even out I guess.
I have an appointment with a gyno in 2 weeks for a pap so I'm going to bring in my charts and see if I can get on some meds to either shorten my cycle or help with the spotting, or ideally for both!
clementine / 861 posts
AF is supposed to start today and I'm having standard cramping. I got a BFN this morning and now I'm just waiting. This is our 11th cycle and I had a really good feeling about this month. We have an appointment in 3 weeks with my doctor to start discussing our options and I was starting to let myself think that maybe we'd be able to change that to a pregnancy confirmation appointment.
I stopped charting in October and took a break from Hellobee because trying was consuming everything and I was too sad. This month was my first month charting again and I thought we did everything right. Now I just need AF to show if it's going to so that we can start again.
Baby dust to those of you who are still in!!
ETA: I added this to the wrong post. Sorry.
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