So far, DH's family has come over every day since we've been home from the hospital (last Sunday) which I like having visitors but they don't call when they come! They also ring the doorbell every time they come when we've asked them not to in the past (small house, loud door bell).

MIL came over when I was in the shower the other day, but our living room is right next to the main bathroom so I couldn't get out! I didn't have any clothes in with me but I would have had I known she was coming over. I stood weeping in the bathroom because I was so tired and couldn't leave the bathroom naked in my towel in front of her.

His grandparents came over yesterday and woke all of us up from a much needed nap. Then they came over that night too again, no call, rang the door bell. So I took out the batteries from the doorbell, problem solved.

However, I asked them to use purell before holding baby and his grandmother passed my LO to SIL without using it...she was wiping her nose on her hand the whole time they were over (she's a preteen and isn't very clean in general). They had been at the mall prior and maybe I'm being over protective but come on!

And today FIL and his wife were suppose to come over and just didn't show up. I talked to them this morning to make sure they were coming over, they said yes. No call or text. But they posted a lot on facebook this afternoon so I know they're fine. WTH? Another SIL did this Tuesday too!

Am I just being hormonal?? None of them offer to help when they come over. I don't expect gifts but it's not like they've brought anything for DD. I'm worried they are going to keep coming over at all hours of the day when I have a newborn and toddler to take care of. I'm so frustrated. DH won't say anything to them because he doesn't want to hurt their feelings.

They came over unannounced when I was pregnant all the time too so I asked them to call first but they won't listen...I'm not sure what to do!