I am so mad at my partner right now. So mad.

We got legally married while I was pregnant so we could use the life event to switch to an insurance plan that covered midwifery care and home birth.

When the baby was a couple of weeks old, Sweetie decided to use the birth as a life event to switch back to the old insurance which has much better coverage for his GP.

I was not really sleeping at all then due to baby with as yet undiagnosed health problems who cried all the time and wouldn't sleep. Even so, I told Sweetie to check with the benefits department about what the effective date would be and how that might affect coverage for bulk-billed prenatal care and the birth.

Sweetie forgot to check. Consequence, my prenatal care and birth are not covered.

We got married when we did for no reason. We spent several months paying more for a different insurance plan for no reason. We paid OOP for two of Sweetie's GP visits for no reason. And we spent thousands of dollars on my prenatal care and birth for no reason.

And the baby won't f-ing sleep today.