We have a wedding coming up and I will likely buy off the registry. My questions are:

1) should we send the gift direct to the bride's home?
2) if yes to 1, should we send the "hallmark" card at that time?
3) if yes to 1, but no to 2, is it weird to bring a "hallmark"card to a wedding that is not stuffed with money?

Wondering why I am asking this myself? In the past I have brought the actual gift to the wedding, but I realize now that may be a hassle. We didn't register for gifts and the guests who gave us cards also put money in the cards.