I don't mean the Big Stuff like communicate well with each other, prioritize each other, blah blah blah. 
I mean the little secrets, like having coffee ready for your SO in the morning or always greeting them at the door with a hug and a kiss. Or making sure to have a TV show to watch together, even if you usually stream TV separately.
What are your (little) secrets for a happy and healthy relationship?
clementine / 838 posts
We joke that they secret to our relationship is separate blankets And sheets but truly it is!! We had so many tense moments when we first started living together over bedding. He has his own sheet and light blanket. I have my own sheet and down duvet. He has his body pillow and I have my massive snoogle.
grapefruit / 4028 posts
Saying I love you way more often then necessary and always kissing hello and goodbye, even if you are just running to the store.
It's lasted us 9 extraordinarily happy years.
blogger / nectarine / 2608 posts
--Making sure there are homemade cookies in his lunch during planting/harvest
--Picking out good books for him at the library. Since Lorelei is usually with me I have to use my Mr. T Cliff's Notes: if there is, "explosion," "CIA," "murder," "detective," or "Minnesota" in the synopsis I check it out. 
No time to read the whole thing.
--Making sure that we always have sourdough bread, Orange Juice (never from concentrate), and bananas on hand for breakfast.
--If he says, "I would eat that," when leafing through one of my cookbooks or cooking magazines, I try to remember the name of the recipe and make it for him one day because he always appreciates it.
nectarine / 2031 posts
when hubs gets off work he calls me and we talk about our day, who we spoke with what about any new things. we talk his whole commute home which is an hour.
always say I love you to each other.
I make his lunch for work everyday every now and then I will surprise him with little notes that say I love you
he texts me every a.m. to tell me to have a good day at work and he loves me. its the little things
eggplant / 11287 posts
Laughter, love letters, and lots of sex.
Honest to God!
ETA: there is nothing better than waking up to a surprise hand-written love letter from your spouse.
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