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What was harder: first trimester fatigue or newborn sleep?

  1. HLK208

    pineapple / 12234 posts

    I have to add, post partum, I felt like I could be an efficient sleeper! While pregnant, I can't sleep and overall, I never feel good. An hour of sleep while not pregnant vs. an hour of sleep while pregnant, is very, very different.

  2. dojo

    persimmon / 1223 posts

    First trimester for sure. I was so exhausted, nauseous, and just overall terrible feeling all throughout my first trimester. That first month with a newborn with no sleep was rough but it doesn't compare to how crappy I felt first trimester.

  3. winniebee

    hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts

    @HLK208: newborn sleep. I was tired but not delirious in my first tri!

  4. HLK208

    pineapple / 12234 posts

    @winniebee: oh, I was definitely delirious after having E, don't get me wrong! I turned into on coming traffic while driving when I was 2 weeks pp. My brain was just DONE. I did have energy pp whereas I didn't have an ounce of energy during the first trimester.

  5. lamariniere

    pineapple / 12566 posts

    Newborn sleep! At least I was sleeping during the first trimester!!!

  6. lemondrop

    bananas / 9118 posts

    Pregnancy exhaustion is bad, and even harder with a toddler- but the lack of sleep along with nursing issues and feeling absolutely lost and hopeless and overwhelmed with a newborn wins it for me. Wait, why did I agree to a second kiddo? j/k.... think I'll go cry now

  7. yin

    honeydew / 7917 posts

    Newborn sleep, especially the first time around. I didn't mind the first trimester fatigue.

  8. MsLipGloss

    GOLD / pineapple / 12662 posts

    Newborn sleep . . . Because it lasted so much longer! Not sleeping longer than 1.5 hours for 9 months is a looooong haul.

  9. Cherrybee

    papaya / 10570 posts

    Newborn sleep because you *can* sleep when you really need to during the first trimester. You can get home from work and lie in bed all evening groaning! You can have a lie in at the weekend. If needs be you can call in sick to work but you can't call in sick to your baby - he/she demands your time and attention no matter how exhausted you are.

  10. littlek

    GOLD / squash / 13576 posts

    @HLK208: I think first trimester. I thought newborn sleep wasn't bad but that was because B got put in a napping schedule at the NICU.

  11. blackbird

    wonderful grape / 20453 posts

    newborn sleep. it wasn't *that* bad, though. E got onto a schedule in special care and kept it at home. But i didn't have much pregnancy fatigue, either. I napped a lot and DH let me sleep in on weekends, so I never got toooo far behind.

    month 4/5 was way worse, though. I know it's not an option, but good lord.

  12. lilyann

    nectarine / 2878 posts

    Newborn sleep (or lack there of), hands down!

  13. illumina

    pomelo / 5469 posts

    Newborn sleep. Either I have forgotten, or pregnant sleep didn't get bad until the 3rd tri-- and it didn't even seem that bad.

  14. googly-eyes

    GOLD / pomelo / 5737 posts

    Nb sleep. There's no catching up or relaxing.

  15. cascademom

    coconut / 8861 posts

    Newborn sleep or lack thereof. It got so much harder when I went back to work and was pumping. I felt like a zombie for months.

  16. tysonja

    nectarine / 2217 posts

    First trimester with an 8month old wins for me, with first tri and no kids, no work coming in second. Newborn sleep both times have been okay, thank god!

  17. Corduroy

    pomelo / 5258 posts

    First trimester. I could not keep my eyes open at work, I fell asleep on the bus and missed my stop repeatedly and generally did nothing but work and sleep... all while acting like nothing was different since I wasn't "out." In the newborn days everyone understood why I was exhausted.

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