or even while you were in labor? Did you allow visitors at the hospital during labor, in the room, or none at all? After birth, did you have visitors at the hospital? If so, how many? Did it go the way you wanted? Share your experience!
When A was born we wanted no one to be at the hospital while we were there, so we just didn't tell anyone I was in labor. We waited about an hour or two afterwards to let people know she was born. We had my mom, sister/BIL and DH's brother and SIL visit that day. The next day however, people were showing up left and right and it was so frustrating. People I barely associate with were showing up. Things will be very different this time.