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What's the longest you've been away from your LO?

  1. BKCaribBaby

    pear / 1672 posts

    Three full days for a work trip. That was hard.

  2. JoJoGirl

    cantaloupe / 6206 posts

    So far only ~27 hours! She's getting old enough now that we are starting to think about going on vacation and leaving her with my parents for upwards of a week, once we save up some money. SO EXCITED just thinking about it, but i'm sure i'll be more anxious once we actually plan it.

  3. Zbug

    persimmon / 1355 posts

    Just four hours or so. It's pathetic but she won't take a bottle. Someday,,,

  4. Mrs. Grizzly Bear

    GOLD / grapefruit / 4555 posts

    I was gone from DS for a few days when I had DD. That was over a year ago and I don't see leaving either of them in the near future. Nine days sounds rough Big hugs for you!!

  5. Mrs. High Heels

    blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts

    Wow, 9 days is a long time!

    We've been away for a weekend, so 2 nights, and we come back by the 3rd day.

  6. LuLu Mom

    GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts

    2 nights, so like 2 1/2 days. The first time was hard, the second was easier.

  7. cascademom

    coconut / 8861 posts

    3-4 days. The weather was bad after New Year's, so he stayed with my parents a little longer until we could safely travel to get him. Luckily, he likes it there and didn't complain too much about it.

  8. NavyRN2012

    persimmon / 1447 posts

    DD- a work day (12ish hours)
    DS- 5 weeks when I went to Officer Development School

  9. bhbee

    cantaloupe / 6086 posts

    just over 2 days. it was while we were moving - I left her at my mom's. I was so busy which really helped. actually I felt more nervous that I was letting her fly alone with my mom! but everyone did great.

    I would have a hard time with 9 days for sure.

  10. Pancakes

    nectarine / 2180 posts

    We left her this weekend for 3 nights with my parents for the first time. It was a little hard on all of us (not my parents). She cried for us (me) at night and we missed her terribly. But she is 3.

  11. Rainbow Sprinkles

    eggplant / 11287 posts

    Man, 9 days is insanely long.

    With W, about 28 hours when I went to have her baby sister at the hospital. But she was at the hospital for about 3-4 of those hours.

    With M, maybe 4-5 hours.

    I don't think I plan on being away from both of them overnight for a long time.

  12. Ajsmommy

    pomegranate / 3355 posts

    28 hours is the longest I've been away from LO. It was an overnight trip. It was hard but that was b/c it was the first time I'd been away for more than the regular work day. She was just fine and I had a good time.

    Good luck to you!! Both of you will survive and I"m sure there'll be LOTS of snuggles when they return. Maybe you should plan some special time together when they get back!

  13. Mommy Finger

    pomegranate / 3272 posts

    5 days. We went to Mexico for my brother's wedding. It was a nice vacation but I did miss my little guy.

  14. Periwinkle

    pear / 1879 posts

    To date, the longest I have been away from him was one night. I am leaving for a week-long overseas business trip next week without LO and I am starting to have major anxiety about it.

  15. Pepper

    pomelo / 5820 posts

    14 hours, 9 am til about 11 pm. I was filming a wedding. I've never left him overnight.

    9 days is really long. That's tough.

  16. plantains

    grapefruit / 4671 posts

    @Mrs. Pen: Th elongest for us was nine days. I had to go the UK for work and left her with DH. It was hard but at the same time I think it was really giid for me to reconnect with my identity as a person beyond being mum and wife. We FaceTimed everyday although some days that actually was upsetting and confusing for her so we couldn't do it as much as we wanted to.

    Try to do things that you find difficult to do when they are home jus to at least get a silver lining out of the time spent apart.

  17. Mrs. Pen

    blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts

    @plantains: for awhile I was actually feeling somewhat excited just because I feel like I can finally focus my attention on my studies without interruption and hopefully work on bringing my grades up this week... but then it set in yesterday how long they'll really be gone and it makes me sad. But I'm going to make the most of it by working really hard. I'm glad you had a pretty positive experience for the same length of time! I 100% trust DH and I know this will be an amazing father-son time, and a valuable time for J to get to know his dad's side of the family.

  18. MrsStar

    nectarine / 2994 posts

    lo is almost 2 and the longest I've been away from her was 5 hours.

  19. Running Elley

    coconut / 8681 posts

    I've been away from DS overnight (while I was in the hospital having DD) and I've only been away from DD for maybe 4 hours??

  20. birdofafeather

    pineapple / 12053 posts

    a little bit over 48 hours to attend a wedding. it was amazing getting away with DH and connecting without having to worry about DD's schedule. she had a blast with my parents!

  21. sunny

    coconut / 8430 posts

    Just a regular workday -- 9ish hours.

    DH had a 5 day work trip when LO was just over a year. We missed him! He doesn't normally travel for his job, so it was pretty unusual for us.

  22. sandy

    cantaloupe / 6687 posts

    5 days when DH and I went to NY for the Super Bowl this year. Before that 3 days when we went away for our anniversary

  23. plantains

    grapefruit / 4671 posts

    @Mrs. Pen: I think it is also harder for you because you will be home while they go away. Big hug, they will be back before you know it!

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