This is kind of random, but how can you be supportive of a friend who wants to be married with kids, and just isn't meeting the right person? My friend is 36, successful, smart, friendly, well-adjusted...and just isn't meeting the right guy. How can you deal with something so out of your control? You want a certain life and set-up and fate just isn't cooperating. What do you do? How would you advise someone? I keep telling her that the right person will come along (and she won't settle), but that sounds hollow. Any ideas? Is life just random and unfair?