DH had a rough adjustment to baby #2 since it meant he had to be a lot more involved with LO1. LO2 is 11 months and it's still a Herculean effort to get him to watch the two kids. I'm getting fed up.

There's other stress in my life at the moment (layoffs and a unplanned job hunt) so I'm probably being too hard on him. But I really need a break and him refusing to watch two kids means I almost never get a break (LO2 took his first crib nap in 3 months today, so almost never whereas it had been never). Is this typical? Is there anything that helped your SO jump in (besides baby #3)?