After years of saving, hoping, wishing, praying, and wishing some more, DH and I thought we would never be able to buy a home in this area, let alone build! Well, one of the new communities we have been looking at is having a great promotion with closing costs and $25K design studio money for upgrades. DH and I have been living in apts since college, so this is all new to us. I really want the stainless steel package for the kitchen, and I want hardwoods in the walk out basement and main level. What upgrades did you find worth the splurge, and what did/would you skip?!? The options seem limitless, and I don't want to get crazy!