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  1. Crystal

    grapefruit / 4028 posts

    A-!

    I hope everyone does move here.

  2. BSB

    hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts

    WA got a B, but my company is based in CA, so I get some additional perks, I think.

  3. Ajsmommy

    pomegranate / 3355 posts

    My state is a C but my company is based out of a different state and they got an F, which seems more on par. They are just behind the times so to speak..... we just got the ok to wear open toe'd shoes about 4 yrs ago

  4. yellowbird

    honeydew / 7303 posts

    D

  5. teamjse

    nectarine / 2274 posts

    A-

  6. MsLipGloss

    GOLD / pineapple / 12662 posts

    @Ajsmommy: I don't like open-toed shoes in the workplace! I think peep toes are okay for, say, a more casual Friday/business casual environment, but all in all, I feel like I see way too much of people's feet! Maybe it's because I loathe shoes that make flipping noises as people walk by.

  7. sarah.clarisse

    apricot / 360 posts

    A-
    I feel lucky to have the benefits that come with living in California... especially because we certainly pay for it as far as cost of living.
    Currently looking to move out of state and that means either a B or F. Uh oh.

  8. Ajsmommy

    pomegranate / 3355 posts

    @MsLipGloss: lol! Well ours have to be shoe - shoes... No open back, so there's no flipping

  9. MsLipGloss

    GOLD / pineapple / 12662 posts

    @Ajsmommy: Well in that case, I am all for the toes!

  10. looch

    wonderful pear / 26210 posts

    @MsLipGloss: I was thinking of you yesterday while I was getting my lunch....there was too much foot and not enough shoe going on all around me!

  11. psw27

    pomelo / 5220 posts

    C -- but I'm a state employee so we get no maternity leave just FMLA and have to use our sick and vacation time to pay it.

  12. Ra

    honeydew / 7586 posts

    C

  13. clover

    kiwi / 557 posts

    F, and it doesn't surprise me. Thankfully my employer was pretty good though.

  14. LuLu Mom

    GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts

    Big black F....no surprise we have no rights for mothers what so ever.

  15. MsLipGloss

    GOLD / pineapple / 12662 posts

    @looch: hahaha! It's seriously distracting, even with my door closed. I would be AWFUL as an HR person . . . because strict dress code enforcement would be on my radar! I can forgive a little here and there, but sometimes I look around and wonder where the heck did the standards go?!

  16. Smurfette

    GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts

    @MsLipGloss: I am in between two girls in shoe flipping hell. I mean really how hard is it to pick up our damn feet when you walk.

  17. MsLipGloss

    GOLD / pineapple / 12662 posts

    @Smurfette: That's insanity! And OMG that means they're both wearing inappropriate shoes AND not picking their feet up when they walk. That's just so lazy, and annoying. For peete's sake, I wore heels to work every day until the day I delivered. I don't think women have to wear heels, but seriously!

  18. Smurfette

    GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts

    @MsLipGloss: One reason I hate summer time. Although the one lady does it all year. But the sandals make it 10x worse.

  19. chopsuey

    hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts

    @MsLipGloss: @Smurfette: omg F, really?! yikes.

    I living here so much

  20. blackbird

    wonderful grape / 20453 posts

    My state got an F. Honestly, my company is considered one of the best, though, so I live in a bubble, apparently

  21. night cheese

    apricot / 453 posts

    The state where I live got a B - but I work in a neighboring state, which got a D.

    But I'm very lucky that my workplace itself is great and goes above and beyond for working parents (12 weeks paid family leave, unlimited sick/vacation time, designated pumping room, etc.)

  22. Meowkers

    persimmon / 1364 posts

    A-! Yay for California. I'm a bit surprised by this but pleasantly so. I wonder if it's because we have paid family leave.

  23. gingerbebe

    cantaloupe / 6131 posts

    I live in California but my particular employer has different, statutorily exempt policies from the state norm, so I think it really depends on who you work for. I also have a 7 day waiting period for disability to kick in and then get 50% pay for 6 weeks for vaginal delivery and 8 weeks for C-section. After that, its all my own leave. And while I'm on disability, I don't get service credits towards my pension. I do get some perks like getting to have my job held for me for up to a year, if I chose to go unpaid, but yeah, its all a trade off. If I had to do it over again, I would buy a private short term disability policy to supplement my income loss.

    My in-laws live in Michigan, who got an F, but my SIL works for a college who gave her 6 weeks of paid maternity leave that she can tack her own leave on top of. And she gets fantastic retirement benefits.

  24. coopsmama

    cantaloupe / 6059 posts

    My state got an an F. Not surprised one bit!

  25. yerpie110

    nectarine / 2771 posts

    B, so not too bad I guess. We are one of the few states that offers some type of financial compensation for maternity leave.

  26. BlueWolverine

    pear / 1510 posts

    D. Completely unsurprised. This is the same state that passed a law prohibiting cities from raising the minimum wage within city limits. NO MONEY FOR YOU SHIFTLESS PARENTS/MINIMUM WAGE WORKERS!

  27. MrsKRB

    nectarine / 2465 posts

    CT got a B - maybe because our FMLA is 16 weeks?

  28. Mrs. Pen

    blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts

    B

    I'd be interested to know why

  29. Adira

    wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts

    @Mrs. Pen: You can read the full report:

    http://www.nationalpartnership.org/research-library/work-family/expecting-better-2014.pdf

    It lists out why each state got their rating starting on page 26

  30. MsLipGloss

    GOLD / pineapple / 12662 posts

    @chopsuey: Yep. Our state does the bare minimum (only what it is obligated to do under Federal law).

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