Even a partial name. Say, your middle name. Or very similar to your name.
Guys sometimes name their sons after themselves and its normal. I don't think I've ever heard a mom naming their daughter - or son! - after themselves. Thoughts?
Even a partial name. Say, your middle name. Or very similar to your name.
Guys sometimes name their sons after themselves and its normal. I don't think I've ever heard a mom naming their daughter - or son! - after themselves. Thoughts?
wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts
I wouldn't.. I don't have a common name and I already think it's weird if someone else I know has my name!
GOLD / watermelon / 14076 posts
Definitely not. I'm not a fan when guys do it either.
ETA: I meant first names. I briefly considered giving M my middle name, so I wouldn't rule that out.
coconut / 8498 posts
I would, but it's a name I've never gone by and it's actually no longer part of my name. It's a family name, though. If it were just a name my parents liked and picked for me, I wouldn't.
pomegranate / 3872 posts
My lo's middle name is a variant of my first name. Honestly it wasn't wanting to name her after me but the name went so well with her first name and it was the only combo everyone liked.
pomelo / 5129 posts
One of my girl name ideas would be to have a daughter with my first name as her middle name.
but I'm Catholic and my name is Mary so I'm not really sure that really counts as them being named "after me" lol
My mom's name is Maria, so I'm sort of named after her.
kiwi / 578 posts
I would give my middle name...but it was passed down to me from my great grandmother and I was very fond of her. Only family names would I pass down to my kids, I think.
cantaloupe / 6630 posts
Definitely not first names, although my MIL named her daughter after herself and DH wants to give à son his name (no way). I have my mum's name as my middle name and hate it.
pomelo / 5257 posts
Nope. My H also does not want to name a kid after himself. If we have a son, he says he wants him to have "his own name."
blogger / coconut / 8306 posts
Considered it. My grandma, mom and I share a middle name. My SIL has the same mn too.
It didn't work/flow with either kids names so we nixed it... Though Chloe's mn IS after a family member & we are considering the same for baby2.
GOLD / pomegranate / 3688 posts
I wouldn't. Growing up I had a friend who had the same name as her mom and her brother had the same name as her dad. It was kind of creepy.
Unintentionally, DD's MN starts with the same letter as DH's name. I joke that our next kid gets my initial for their MN.
pomelo / 5791 posts
Our girl name (in theory) is part my middle name and part of my mom's first name, and her middle name would be my grandma's middle name...but I wouldn't name them exactly my name.
squash / 13208 posts
As a 1st name? nope
FWIW I am not a fan of boys being named after their dad's either though
grapefruit / 4823 posts
My mom, me and DD all have the same middle name. DS has the same middle name as DH
grapefruit / 4649 posts
I happen to love the name Colette which would be a derivative of my name but I would only use it as a middle and only if I ran out of other choices with meaning. I think I just want my child to have their own name I guess. At the same time we both love my husband's middle name which is a family name and plan to use it.
pomegranate / 3272 posts
Middle names? Absolutely. But not the same first name. Although my friend is named the same as her mother but with a different spelling. To each their own.
cantaloupe / 6059 posts
DH really wants us to give DD (due in July) my middle name as her middle name (Rose). I'm torn. I wish we had a family name to give her but none of them sound fantastic with her first name.
persimmon / 1420 posts
After myself? Nah. I don't like my name enough to do it, not even as a middle. I can't say anything about guys, though- DS is the fifth generation with his name!
papaya / 10473 posts
Maybe my middle name as a girl's middle name, because it was also both of my grandmothers' name. But probably not.
grapefruit / 4988 posts
Both my first and middle name feel very 80s to me, so I wouldn't. If I had a classic name to give, I might have considered it for a middle.
watermelon / 14206 posts
I would...I thought about it with S. My middle name is my mom's first name.
kiwi / 661 posts
I'm not into naming kids after parents in general (no offense to be taken, I work in the medical field and it gets very confusing).... I do know a Laurel who named her daughter Lauren but that is the only mother daughter combo that comes to mind!
pomegranate / 3643 posts
I don't like my name enough and it doesn't make for a good middle name (Jacqueline). But my maiden name I think would be a great middle name!
kiwi / 556 posts
DD coming this September will most likely have my middle name as her first name, but that is because she is being names after the original family member with that name (my late Great-Grandmother). Coincidentally, that name (Violet) is now in the top 100 names, so it isn't like she's being named an old, obscure name.
The only thing that I find odd and might change is that a lot of my screen names, including here, are my middle name - I may change them when she comes along, because that is weird.
Also, I have kept my maiden name, which will be her second middle name.
coconut / 8430 posts
I totally wanted to give my Lo my first name as her middle name but DH nixed it.
cantaloupe / 6800 posts
Haha DH and I talked about this when we first started TTC - The deal is that the only way either of us are allowed to name a LO after ourselves is if we had boy/girl twins. Their names would be Matt & Lucy because DH's middle name is Matthew & mine is Lucille.
GOLD / cantaloupe / 6581 posts
I gave G my middle name (which is my maiden name) as her middle. I wanted the name passed on. She may hate it one day, but I'm glad I gave it to her!
pomelo / 5258 posts
Nope, I wouldn't. I rejected a name I liked because it sounded vaguely reminiscent of my family nickname. I explained that to my doula during labor and she thought I was nuts so I may consider it again. (Turned out it was her daughter's name).
My MIL is named after her mother (same first name).
honeydew / 7504 posts
I'm pretty sure I went to high school with a girl who was named exactly like her mother. She went by her middle name.
ETA: Not something I would do in my own family. I don't really care for it when men/boys do it, either. Just not my thing.
cherry / 224 posts
Anne has been used in my family for the first or middle name for the eldest daughter for the last 4 generations, so I will probably use it as a middle name if I have a daughter.
honeydew / 7091 posts
L has my middle name (that's common in my family though - I think she's like the 6th person to have it). I've seen a lot of women give their LO's their Maiden name, which makes me really jealous. I don't have a good Maiden name for that.
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