I loved this article!

I sent it to my GFs to tell them that they are great!

http://www.kveller.com/blog/parenting/tell-a-friend-you-are-a-good-mama/

"It’s not about what we are doing: bottle feeding, breastfeeding, baking a cake, buying one from Costco–it’s that all of these things are done with love and intention. How we love and care for our children is a matter of individuality, but the whys are more similar than we think. If we as parents spent less time being critical and defensive and more time lifting each other up, the journey would be a little easier on all of us."