Does anyone read Young House Love and find them simultaneously cute and mega irritating? I loved them for so long but lately I am finding them to be super irritating and I don't know whyyyyyyy. Such a cute happy little family!
Does anyone read Young House Love and find them simultaneously cute and mega irritating? I loved them for so long but lately I am finding them to be super irritating and I don't know whyyyyyyy. Such a cute happy little family!
pomegranate / 3383 posts
Yes...I feel like they almost try to hard to be witty and likable. With that said, I do like their blog a lot!!
cherry / 128 posts
Aw, I love them! Living in Richmond probably contributes to the love of them. I've met them in person, in a totally embarrassing I know everything about your life but you have no clue who I am conversation, and they were super nice!
What about them is irritating you these days?
cantaloupe / 6800 posts
I kinda hate that they bought that new house in October and never mentioned it to anyone until now.. although i'm very excited about what they will do with it I am annoyed they did stuff for their current house for resale and acted like it was just because they liked it. Tan walls for Clara's room?
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
they seem really nice and down to earth, and i know they work super duper hard. i'm a fan!
cantaloupe / 6800 posts
@walnutems: I think for me personally it's the $herdog thing
it was funny once or twice...buuut not so much anymore. I had nothing but respect for them, they are super business savy! I drove through Richmond the other day and told DH my online friends lived there lmfao!
pomegranate / 3521 posts
I am a relatively new reader to YHL and I still find them cute and entertaining.
On the other hand Katie Bower from BowerPowerBlog is "meh" for me now.
pineapple / 12526 posts
@MrsTiz: I sort of felt the same way about the news that they bought that house so long ago.
Anyway, part of me does feel like they try too hard but I do still really like them. I read the blog regularly. I think they seem like really nice people. I wish they could have done a book tour in the UK!
grapefruit / 4862 posts
I'm a big fan! But I did think the whole "oh by the way we bought a house" thing was kind of weird. Not "wrong" but they wrote about their moving process last time, and this time feels almost secretive? So it was just weird for me. Interested to see why or what's going on.
pear / 1570 posts
@walnutems: @Mrs. Bee: @jmarionsmith: I'm a HUGE fan still - I am just finding that something is different. I feel lucky that they let us in on their day to day life as it is not something that they have to share.
@MrsTiz: I totally get why they waited on the house reval. DH and I were talking about it and we would have done the same.
I am glad that I am not the only one that feels like this. Will continue to be a devoted reader and hopefully it passes!
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
I still read it regularly but they are starting to annoy me some. I feel like their taste is getting cheaper and cheaper. I wonder how long they are going to be able to keep the blog as their full time job.
cherry / 128 posts
@MrsTiz: I can see that, it's a little weird!
@Reese: Totally agree on Bower Power, seems like she has her hands too full these days and can't make it all work!
cantaloupe / 6800 posts
@littlebittyhouse: They said it was because people so easily found their current house last time which I totally get because people on GOMI found their new house address on DAY 1. It's scary!!
grapefruit / 4671 posts
I used to really like them but these days, I am a bit meh. I don't know,. it just feels a bit contrived now.
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
i understand why they kept the new house a secret. it's tough when your personal life and work life are so intertwined and you have to decide what to share and what to keep to yourself. it's something i think about a lot with hellobee!
grapefruit / 4862 posts
@MrsTiz: good point! That would make sense as to why they handled the same process 100% differently.
cantaloupe / 6800 posts
@kjpugs: I hope they do give more details about how they go about selling their house again though!
pomegranate / 3521 posts
@walnutems: Yeah her updates seem so forced at this point. I totally understand that it must be hard with two kids.
watermelon / 14467 posts
I'm a huge fan of YHL! I understand why they didn't tell us, but some of their recent projects did seem weird/not their style until they told us about the new house. I'm excited to see what they do with the new place, but I really hope they don't keep moving just for the sake of their blog.
pomegranate / 3032 posts
I think for me when they were going through the book projects was hard. They were still trying to keep it fresh on the blog but they had limited time due to all the super secret book projects. so between the book, the tour and the new house, i think they've been a little distracted. I'm hoping with the new house they'll jump back in with renewed vigor.
pineapple / 12793 posts
I follow along because I was friends with John in college, but I'm disappointed in their designs most of the time. It's great to see their success and Clara is such a doll. I do love their posts about her. Their dragon party looks so cute!
apricot / 284 posts
Huge fan here too, I've been reading since just before they moved from their first house I think...
It's interesting to hear @Mrs. Bee 's take on the work-personal life balance (above) as presumably this was a major factor in them keeping quiet about house number 3! I'm sad to see them leave the current place just as the kitchen reno has truly finished but equally excited to see what they do over at the new place given they were obviously running out of big projects in the current house
papaya / 10473 posts
I used to love them but they grate on my nerves so badly now that I've stopped reading. I think its all the cutesy trying-too-hard stuff like $herdog.
hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts
I'm a huge fan of them, too. I don't read them religiously because of my feedler app being deleted when I bought a new phone.
I read them when they post on facebook.
They bought a new house? I need to go back and check.
It was very cool meeting them on their book tour.
ETA: Oh, the house is so cute. Ehh, doesn't bother me that they waited on telling us the news of their new house.
I've been on the behind the scenes of a popular website and there are some crazies out there to worry about. I'm happy for them!
blogger / pomelo / 5400 posts
The last house was kind of "meh." Excited to see what they do in this one, though. I hope they adopt a bit more of a sophisticated style -- a bit more mix and match instead of Ikea/Target everything. (And trust me, I love both.)
I also think some people are finding them a bit less relatable the more successful and exposed that they become.
bananas / 9357 posts
I love them and still read their blog everyday! I skip over a lot their posts b/c they're too wordy. But I think they're very cute and I'm excited about the new house.
pear / 1570 posts
I am super excited about the new house! I am thinking that will give them renewed vigor!
grapefruit / 4187 posts
I am a huge fan and read it daily, but I get the sense that they resent the fact that the blog is their full time job and don't like being in the spotlight but are kind of stuck since this is the life they chose and it is clearly very lucrative for them. There have been some recent posts that came off that way (even though they obviously tried not to) like when they explained they were cutting the monthly post count to have more family time, when they posted about working smarter not harder, the post about sherry's non existant pregnancy and now the new house post.
It's like they don't want anyone to know anything about them and almost get affronted when people ask personal questions, but meanwhile they've been putting themselves out there from the start - it isn't a DIY only blog. They want to be able to share only certain things about themselves and sort of dont' realize that it doesn't work that way.
And I also think it's a little funny how they always act like they have no money, barely make anything and have to be super cheap on every purchase, meanwhile they've been paying two mortgages since the fall and they're both able to stay home full time to work on the blog. I feel like my intelligence is a little insulted and would prefer that they just say "okay we admit we're makign some real $ now"
hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts
@Modern Daisy: I don't feel insulted. I just read this post about how they kinda hate comments about how the 'book bought their house.' They say it's not true and they mention how the book industry really works. It was definitely enlightening to me because, at first, I did think, wow, they are making money that they could afford two mortgages.
From this post... http://www.younghouselove.com/2013/04/heres-the-thing/
This is not “the house the book bought” (we still haven’t hit our royalty point), it’s the house that seven years of saving up and living within our means bought. Had we strained our wallets and gone for a larger or more turn-key house back in 2006, we probably would’ve had a very different financial path, and most certainly would have had a different career path. So even though we had to wait a while, it just makes this new chapter in our lives that much sweeter. Who knows, we might just stay there forever…
http://www.younghouselove.com/2013/01/how-the-book-bid-ness-works-at-least-for-us/
ETA: They do mention that their first house was purchased with just John's income. Being a blogger and self employed wasn't enough for the banks. Then their second house was purchased with Sherry's income. This third house was the first time they could both qualify to buy a house. So good for them for buying houses that they could afford at the time with the ability to save for their dream house.
bananas / 9227 posts
I love them! I haven't been keeping up much, so I've only read one mention of $herdog and instantly thought, "they are sooo my generation". They work so hard too, I think they totally deserve all the success they've gotten.
grapefruit / 4649 posts
I read everyday and I really enjoy the things they do. I was kind of put off by their post about the new house though because it was so filled with defensive statements (like the one about the book.) It feels to me like they are really struggling with the boundaries and privacy element of things. I am always amazed at how personal some of the comments can get on their site and instagram. I really understand them wanting to pull back a bit but somehow it is coming off a bit awkwardly.
coconut / 8498 posts
I have a love/hate relationship with YHL. One one hand, they're cute, Clara is adorable, and when they have a true DIY project (like, deck building) it's really cool to read. On the other hand, their cute is becoming more and more annoying, and I think they should step up the design game... It's okay to not do everything the cheapest way possible...
nectarine / 2217 posts
i like reading about their renos and the way they live their lives and run the blog and their home inspires me!
however i am not a huge fan of the cutesy tone/style of the blog -- that's why i was glad when they made each post much shorter. way easier to gulp down every day!
i try to just get to the facts... haha. also i am not a fan of 'round-ups' and summaries. i'd rather a blog just not post for a day or two instead. just my personal preferences, though!
overall i definitely admire them! they work hard
cantaloupe / 6800 posts
@Modern Daisy: oh they're making BANK. Like, way over 10k per month. There is another blog that breaks down how much money they make and from where, they get like 1/4 of the hits and make 20k PER MONTH blogging together. Plus they have all the side gigs like the light shades, the paint, etc.
They're certainly not hurting for money.
http://dollarsandroses.com/march-income-report/
I'm totally team Sherry having another LO though, I love the posts about Clara.
nectarine / 2936 posts
I like them. I saw them out shopping when I lived in Richmond and freaked out. The way they announced buying their new house didn't bother me, but I also feel like I never got very attached to their second house. The third house will be interesting because it is a much different style and seems seriously out of date so there will be a lot to work with. I just don't want to see them buy a new house every 2-3 years because they have run out of projects. I understand that that is their job at this point, but I think I'm more invested as a reader if I feel like they are putting down some kind of roots than if it is a temporary house. Does that make sense?
clementine / 880 posts
I like them and enjoy reading their blog and getting ideas for my own house even if my personal style is a bit different (I'm more into neutrals than bright colors) but overall they give great tips.
I see a lot on these forums about mom-judging and unwanted comments about pregnancy, or asking about when you'll have the baby etc -- basically overall getting annoyed by other people judging and asking questions. I think John and Sherry have to deal with that so much more, and if we personally don't like it we shouldn't do it to them. Yes, they put their lives in the public sphere, but if you don't like them then don't follow their blog. easy peasy. No need to criticize them
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