I know there have been threads on this, but I can't seem to find any of them.

So I am 11 weeks and on the verge of being "out" about it, but I"m struggling on how to tell my nextdoor neighbor who lost a baby in September. Our boys play together afterschool a lot and she told me super early when she was expecting. I"ve been avoiding telling her bc I just don't know how to do it sensitively without being oversensitive and be weird--if that makes sense.