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I am very lucky, DH does the garbage, dusting, and vacuuming. He also does the floors and laundry half the time. And cooks dinner and sometimes even wash the dishes also.

This is something DH shines at! He is actually quite helpful around the house !

Right now he is in his first year of residency....so I consider anything he does around the house to be a bonus. Before I was a SAHM and he was in school, we had a split that felt fair to me. I'm sure that when we are both working out of the home again, we will divide chores again.

I should add that he definitely still helps out...does dishes, helps with laundry and picking up...but he works crazy hours so it seems fair to me that I do most of it for now

I do most of the chores, but my job is a lot less physically demanding than his so I think it's pretty fair. He does all the lawn care (except for flowers - that's gladly mine!), cooks dinner 1-2 times a week and does dishes about once per week. I wish he was tidier, but I'm not the tidiest so I can't get too mad.

I have to say, I am lucky with how much my Hubby helps out. He puts all the laundry away, does the dishes (60%) of the time, does the cat's room, helps with the floors.

Now if only I could get him to do it more often. lol

My DH rocks in this department. I'm a seriously blessed woman. I work longer hours/more days than he does, so there's usually nothing for me to do at home except put away my washed and folded laundry. I owe him a weekend off from cleaning once my 1st trimester tiredness lightens up!

Yes! DH is amazingly supportive, even though he works 12 hour days six days per week. He makes dinner every night, takes care of all the "boy jobs" (I use that term loosely, but taking out the garbage, cleaning outside, and any fix it items are definitely his realm, not mine!), and basically will pitch in with whatever I need his help on. I try to do most of the housework and running of errands since I am a SAHM, but he is very good about recognizing that that is a full time job in itself.

I truly hit the husband jackpot and I tell him this all the time.

No. He needs to learn to multi-task and is working on it. However, what I hate the most is how long is takes for him to do a project. Case in point, putting up the safety railings for the stairs. I hate having to go through an ordeal each and every time something he says he'll do needs to be done. I'm patient. We had those guard rails from even before my 3rd trimester! DD is 13 months old! I'm fed up with him. I absolutely hate feeling like I'm forcing someone to do something, although to him, I'm not forcing him. I guess he's just used to being pushed into doing stuff, but for me I detest it and I'm beginning to resent him for it. We're working on it, but right now things are still fresh and I'm still angry.

I do more, but it's ok...he helps out if I really need him to.