I've been cleaning more lately, but haven't noticed a difference in my SO's attraction to me.
Clearly, I should clean more... right?
Are you more attracted to your SO when they clean and do chores?
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Yup! It's attractive to me to know that I have a partner who wants to help keep our home and our life in order and doesn't expect me to shoulder that burden alone.
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I'm not more attracted, per se. I think I feel grateful...And when /I'm grateful, I'm happy. And when I'm happy, I'm loving.
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No, I just expect him to do it. I don't think he finds me anymore attractive when I clean either.
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Yes, because would be annoyed if he were no help or expected me to do everything for him!
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@Andrea: Good point! If attractiveness was directly related to the amount of cleaning and chores I accomplish, I'd be a freakin Victoria Secret model...The one who gets to wear the crazy-ass diamond wings!
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@Rubies: yeah exactly...it should go both ways right?!?
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@Andrea: @Rubies: It's pretty clear to me that you guys have no idea how men's minds work!!!
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@mrbee: I seriously do not!
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@mrbee: men's minds are twisted. DH and I had this discussion last night.
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@Andrea: I don't know if if either gender is better or worse? They're just different.
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I have to agree with @rubies. I'm happy that he helps, but it doesn't effect my attractiveness level.
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@mrbee: hahha I think DH loves me more and is happier when the house is clean and when I clean my car! I cleaned my car out while he was out of town.. He was so happy. Lol.
When DH cleans, I'm thankful, but it doesn't make me more attracted to him.
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I'm not more attracted to him but I do appreciate him more.
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I don't know about more attracted, but I definitely am more appreciative. He's wonderful about cleaning though - probably cleans more than I do.
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i'm definitely appreciative, and in turn probably more... generous ... during romantic times when i feel that way, but as far as physically attracted, no. when he does 'manly' things like mowing a lawn or something, then yes, i'm more attracted to him. sweat can be sexy =D
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Haha this made me laugh!!! DH does like it when I put on my apron and get cooking.. He can't seem to leave me alone... But I'm not sure if it's the food I'm making or that he thinks it's "hot". In reverse... Hmmm if he's gotten all dirty working on something... Yeah I'm attracted to the manliness!! Hehee
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YES!! I shower him with compliments when he helps out with things around the house because it's so rare!!!
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@Alivoo01: haha yes this too!!
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I really appreciate it, but I also secretly think about how I would have done the chore more effectively...so no!
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