I try to keep my mouth shut when I disagree how my spouse handles his chores. But if it affects me and my day, I’m likely to say something. When do you speak up?

I swear my husband does the dishes so fast, he must be imagining he’s a ninja. I open it to add something, and it’s total chaos, appears full though it isn’t (on account of being so haphazard), some stuff upside down... Today I opened it and found a pancake stuck to a plate. A pancake. Wtf? How do you not notice that?

I haven’t said anything, because I guess it isn’t big enough to me yet. But that pancake. OMG.