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Are you surviving or thriving?

  1. Sweet T

    pomelo / 5321 posts

    Surviving. The terrible twos, pregnancy, and the stress of living so far from family is really killing me.

  2. bunnylove08

    grapefruit / 4442 posts

    Surviving. Dd is at the clingy stage and only wants me and she is not sleeping through the full night.

  3. heartonastring

    pomegranate / 3895 posts

    Barely surviving. Let's just say I cried myself to sleep last night.

  4. illumina

    pomelo / 5469 posts

    I'm not quite sure how to define both, but I'd say unless I'm having a bad pregnancy day or DH is having a particularly stressful week, I'd say we're thriving. Things are pretty good.

  5. Adira

    wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts

    @Dandelion: *hug*

    I would say we're somewhere in between surviving and thriving. We're definitely past surviving now, but it's still hard to keep on top of everything, so we're not thriving either.

  6. .twist.

    pineapple / 12802 posts

    @Ree723: No, thank you! That makes perfect sense.

    Then, if I kinda go by how you answered, I'm in between surviving and thriving. Soon though it might change with a new baby. lol

  7. Turd Ferguson

    pomegranate / 3160 posts

    Baby isn't here yet, but right now I'd say thriving. We're settled in our (new!) house, couldn't be happier with DH, and pregnancy has gone fabulously so far! I think DH and I are exactly where we want to be (granted, there's ALWAYS "stuff" to work on--wouldn't mind having the student loans paid off, wish we had another car, etc., but all in all, it's great!)!

  8. luckypenny

    grapefruit / 4582 posts

    I think thriving! DD and I are finally in a really great routine and I love this time after the 1st year. DH and I haven't been better either!

  9. Mrs. Grizzly Bear

    GOLD / grapefruit / 4555 posts

    Surviving. Some days are better than others but most of the time, I'm just surviving. The only time I feel myself thriving is when I've managed to get them both down for a nap and I can clean!

  10. Smurfette

    GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts

    @Dandelion: This makes me so happy.

    We are slowing moving out of surviving mode. I think by the end of the summer thriving.

  11. Smurfette

    GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts

    @hergreenapples: I cried while getting R to sleep last night. After almost an hour and half I was over it. I think she understood Mom was done and finally went to sleep. Hugs!!

  12. Modern Daisy

    grapefruit / 4187 posts

    I guess I have to say thriving, but of course that will change once LO arrives. I've had a very enjoyable pregnancy so far and haven't missed out on any planned trips or activities. I've also had a lot of support from friends, family and coworkers and feel like I'm growing through this experience.

  13. bamblm

    cherry / 211 posts

    not thriving yet. The only problem is I haven't figured out yet what it will take to feel like I am thriving.

  14. heartonastring

    pomegranate / 3895 posts

    @Smurfette: Hugs for you as well! How old is R now? Is it normally tricky getting her to sleep or wax last night just a bad night? I definitely find the evenings to be the toughest...I'm just spent by then.

    Glad to hear you see a light at the end if the tunnel though!

  15. Smurfette

    GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts

    @hergreenapples: She is 14 weeks. It is such a battle we started nursing to sleep but even that takes forever some nights. 45 mins is a great night.

  16. rsp213

    apricot / 315 posts

    I think I'm mainly thriving as a mother and at my job. Definitely in survival mode in my marriage

  17. littlek

    GOLD / squash / 13576 posts

    I think we are still in survival mode.

  18. chopsuey

    hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts

    We're thriving as a family--life is good. Very thankful!

  19. littlebittyhouse

    pear / 1570 posts

    I think that most days we are thriving. DH and I can laugh together at the end of the day so I call that a win.

  20. petunia354

    pomegranate / 3863 posts

    Thriving, all thanks to DH who is so incredible and selfless when it comes to work, LO, sleep and household stuff!

  21. yoursilverlining

    eggplant / 11824 posts

    Compared to the newborn days - thriving big time! On a day to day basis, I would say I'm thriving, but some days run very close to just surviving.

    Our marriage and partnership feels stronger every day, and I feel like I can do this (instead of PPD, feeling so much doubt), and I know DH always has our backs, no matter what, which helps tremendously.

  22. HLK208

    pineapple / 12234 posts

    Surviving. I'm not sure what it will take to feel like I'm thriving again. Maybe working? Losing lb's? One of the two so I can boost my self-esteem!

  23. MrsH

    honeydew / 7667 posts

    Just went to survival mode.

  24. tequiero21

    honeydew / 7968 posts

    Definitely surviving. Living day to day and days are just zooming by.

  25. autumnlove

    hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts

    Thriving- no big complaints.

  26. ShootingStar

    coconut / 8472 posts

    Thriving overall. Just surviving pregnancy though.

  27. Periwinkle

    pear / 1879 posts

    Most days, I feel like I am barely surviving. It's been a really tough few months and I while I am so happy in many respects, I'm struggling a lot too.

  28. Periwinkle

    pear / 1879 posts

    @rsp213: I hear ya. I feel that way many days. Who knew how hard it would be to maintain a healthy relationship while pouring all my energy into the baby and work. It's a hard balancing act most days and I often feel like I am on the losing end.

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