Stupid question...
My girls are starting ballet tomorrow at a studio and they will wear leotards and tights. Undies...yes or no?
Ha, I have never worn a leotard!
Stupid question...
My girls are starting ballet tomorrow at a studio and they will wear leotards and tights. Undies...yes or no?
Ha, I have never worn a leotard!
76 votes
nectarine / 2821 posts
We definitely weren't supposed to wear them when I did ballet as a kid! Kinda weird looking back...
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
She wears them under her leotard every week for gymnastics. They peak out some on the sides but oh well.
wonderful clementine / 24134 posts
Yes. I mean like for the recital we didn't have her were any because we had pictures and such.
pomegranate / 3872 posts
Yes. They don't show depending on the cut. A lot of parents change their los into regular clothes right in the waiting area after classes.
apricot / 287 posts
I did ballet for a while and we weren't supposed to. It's probably fine to keep the undies with little kids but the extra layer down there can lead to problem since there's not really any breathability. Personally I found it more comfy without undies, anyways.
pomegranate / 3706 posts
I danced for 20 years and you're not supposed to wear underwear under a leotard, but it doesn't really matter for little kiddos.
cantaloupe / 6687 posts
@T-Mom: @Andrea: same.
At ballet school it specifically says no undies. They wear tights with leotards.
grapefruit / 4418 posts
I was a gymnast through college - no to undies at that age, even moreso for ballet!
grapefruit / 4988 posts
I would probably keep them in undies until someone tells you not to.
@catomd00: I was a gymnast until age 17 and never went without trunks!
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
DD wore undies, but doesn't matter. Everything gets washed after 1 wear, right? 🤗
pomelo / 5093 posts
Ugh, I'm not sure I would attend a studio where they wanted to dictate my child's underwear choice. I'd say, whatever? If it's more comfortable one way, go with that.
nectarine / 2987 posts
No no no. Danced for years and taught for more. No undies. Think of it like a swimsuit!
nectarine / 2148 posts
I would personally not feel comfortable sending my LO without underwear. I can see though how you don't.
cantaloupe / 6687 posts
@sarac: pretty much any reputable ballet studio taught by professional ballet dancers are going to have a dress code that tells them how to dress during ballet class. Not all dance studios that offer ballet classes will have this. It's not so important when they're little and it's not so serious but it's very common for ballet schools to have this as a stated policy. Just like if your kid wanted to become a competitive swimmer - there will be a certain type of swimsuit required. They can't just show up and swim in a bikini. Some little girls may want to attend a ballet studio with the goal of dancing professionally someday. Just saying - it's not uncommon. Didn't mean to go on and on about this but your "ugh" comment just threw me
nectarine / 2987 posts
@sandy: This. Yes. There is a level of decorum required for certain types of dance/dance schools. And specific attire is part of the rules.
kiwi / 696 posts
I found underwear with a Leo to be uncomfortable, kinda like jeans with tights under.
grapefruit / 4418 posts
@sandy: totally Agree! We were not allowed to wear underwear during competition unless you were at that puberty age and even then, we were explicitly told which brand and color we were allowed to wear. In gymnastics, underwear showing = points deducted. It's hard for me
To see why no undies at a young age is weird, to me it's the opposite-no undies would be weirder when you're older and have other junk going on downstairs!
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
I had no idea this was a thing before, like, competition age I guess- but I've never given it any thought. But @sandy: that makes sense in terms of dress code- I've seen places where you have to wear black leotard and pink tights or whatever.
But can someone elaborate on why? Is it just for looks, so there's no bunching or showing? Or comfort? I guess wearing underwear under a swimsuit does sound uncomfortable. I took ballet for a few years as a little kid but have no idea what I did. I'm guessing I wore underwear though.
watermelon / 14467 posts
@Foodnerd81: As an adult, I find it horribly uncomfortable to wear underwear while exercising, so I imagine that it would be worse in a leotard. Plus, those are made from performance fabrics that breath and wick better than cotton underwear.
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
@avivoca: but a preschoolers leotard isn't usually made from fancy breathable material, is it? And they wear tights under it? But is it just to get used to it for later?
Also I wear underwear working out- I just feel so weird without it. Probably because my mom made me wear underwear to ballet class when I was five.
watermelon / 14467 posts
@Foodnerd81: Spandex does have some breath ability to it, as do the tights. I don't know, I find it more comfortable to go without. I hate when it is that time of the month and I have to wear stupid underwear under my tights/capris. I'm a heavy sweater and it just makes things so much worse.
pineapple / 12234 posts
I didn't in gymnastics when I was little and I was always uncomfortable! But I do send DD to ballet with undies on for now.
pomelo / 5093 posts
Yeah, no, I stick with my Ugh. I understand mandating the proper uniform and such, but I can see literally no reason why anyone needs to tell my kid what kind of underwear to wear. I guess I can see mandating no visible underwear, but even that seems bizarre for little kids.
grapefruit / 4110 posts
Lines. The underwear creates lines and other non aesthetically pleasing issues. Leotards should be tight so that the instructor can view the body lines and reposition the body as needed. Underwear breaks that up and can require a less well fitted outfit. Obviously this is less of an issue with a younger class.
For younger kids it is really the distraction of the ill fitting panties coming out of the Leo. I can't tell you how many girls leave class with undies bunched like a scrunchie out the side and the Leo up. They try to pull them up and tuck them and hide them.
wonderful pear / 26210 posts
I didn't dance as a child, but I danced as a teen (the peak of insecurity) and the girls there that had danced for a long time didn't wear underwear. In an effort to fit in, I learned not to wear underwear, but compensated with dark leotards only (black, navy, etc).
I would be fine with a stated rule for kidswear.
grapefruit / 4418 posts
@Foodnerd81: it's for looks. Underwear lines look awful and are distracting, especially in ballet where long lines are the goal. Even if they're not sticking out the side, You can still tell they're under there! At my gymnastics club, it was always emphasized that we need to practice in the same type of gear we would compete in.
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