DS is turning 2 in Feb and we're just deciding to have a party. We went all out for the first birthday, but now that I'm pregnant, I just don't have the energy for an elaborate party this time around.

So, we're just doing immediate family. It'll be around 15 adults and 6 kids.

Would it be super lame to just have pizza then cake and ice cream? Do I need to go all out with appetizers and a real meal?