Please call me out if this sounds selfish... But whenever we go to the splash deck at our YMCA, the older kids always take Cobi's beach toys from him.

Today the little girl was nice and I told her it was fine if she wanted to play with him and it wasn't an issue-she was actually really good with him- it was really sweet!
But some kids take them and won't give them back.

What do you do in this situation? I don't want them taking toys from J, and I don't want our toys going missing. I also hate the idea of talking to their parents over such a small issue!