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No breakups, but an almost breakup a couple of times in our dating relationship.
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We have had 2 rough periods. The first rough period, we broke up for like 2 days (early in the relationship). He did not get it and kept calling me to hang out. He then realized he made a mistake. The second time, we didn't officially break up but we ended up going to couples counseling for a few months. We have been together for over 7 years. DH can be a real PITA at times but I love him.
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@littlek: I agree with your last sentence so much. This year has been our year of struggle (married versus dating) which required counseling. I love him, but there are times I don't like him.
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@cascademom: Marriage is tough! I think almost every couple goes through a difficult time. But I think if you can make it throught the difficult times you end up on the other side a better person/partner/etc. My own personal opinion, is I feel like too many people would rather give up when faced with adversity then fight through it, that's why the divorce rate is so high.
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We did. Hubs cheated on me. So I moved out (of the house we bought together). We stayed broken up for 3-4 months, until he got his head back together, and then we started dating again. Once my lease was up (a full year later), I moved back in. He proposed 3 months later, and we're coming up on 3 years of marriage in October. Our relationship has never been better.
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@littlek: I agree with you, and I think that had we been married, I would not have moved out so quickly. We would have worked harder at staying together in the house. Although, to this day, I think both of us will tell you that me moving out was the right thing at that point in time. Hubs was going through some stuff that he just needed to process on his own in his own time.
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@littlebug: Our situation is very similar. When we were dating DH had an emotional affair and when I found out (on our vacation/awesome timing), I kicked him out of the house and we started counseling for a few months. He is SUCH a different person now.
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@littlek: YES! That's what happened to us! An emotional affair (with an ex-girlfriend). I found out the day we got home from vacation (though I had started to suspect while we were on our vacation).
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@littlebug: Worst vacation EVER!! I found out he was texting her the entire time we were in Napa. Broke my heart. Talk about an awkward 7 hour flight home.
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i think the longest break-up we had was a day
it was a "i'm so mad at you get out of my face" day. no breakups.. that's how we both knew we were The One.
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I have never had that kind of relationship, where you break up and make up in a cycle. It's not me.
I was in a 7 year relationship before I began dating my husband, we never once broke up in that time. I've been with my husband 6 years, and same.
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No we never broke up.
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No break ups. Just a little bit of long distance while we were in the process of finding jobs after college.
it was a "i'm so mad at you get out of my face" day. 
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