GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts
No way in hell. My dad and mom had 4, and then my dad got remarried to someone with 3, and all the kids were in the same house. No way. 2 is my absolute max.
pomegranate / 3643 posts
My parents had three and that's what we plan on.
My mom one ups me with it all the time, though! Any time I complajn about being tired or worn out, she says, "imagine how hard it was with three! And your dad worked every third night. And we had no family around!"
Okay, mom, you win. I always want to point out there was a point she only had two, and they weren't 17 mo apart!
My ILs had four. We could handle it but plan on stopping at three.
cantaloupe / 6869 posts
My parents had four. I always thought I wanted four as well. Now I know better. Three would be my max.
pear / 1657 posts
I'm not sure and I'm one of two! We have one and i love him to bits but I am exhausted...
eggplant / 11716 posts
@jedeve: that's totally annoying. My mom always just sympathizes with me...I have 1 and she had 6!
grapefruit / 4823 posts
My mom and dad had 3, and my dad had another after my parents split. I think we could handle 3, we are at 2 now.
@jedeve: my mom likes to one up me, and everyone else, all the time! If I complain how tired I am, or the house isn't clean she'll go on about how she had 3, and closer together than mine(mine are 15 months apart. My brother is 12 months younger than me and the other is 17 months younger than him) and how my father didn't help her at all! Got mom...
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
@jedeve: @GrapeCrush: My mom does that, too! Drives me INSANE! The best part is when it's phrased as "at least your husband helps you"..... don't even get me started!
grapefruit / 4823 posts
@blackbird: haha my mom starts things out sometimes like this 'do you know how lucky you are to have a husband who helps? Your father didn't help me at all'. Yes mom, I'm so lucky. Now leave me alone haha
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
@GrapeCrush: Luck. BAH HUMBUG. It's called marrying an equal partner, in my book A husband who helps is the base standard, come on!
pomegranate / 3643 posts
@GrapeCrush: @blackbird: I think my mom has done some revisionist history. Yes she did the lion's share is childcare and cooking and cleaning (as a SAHM), and my dad worked a lot when we were young (starting a new doctor's office). But I think he has become a dead beat dad in her mind! Especially whenever she sees my DH helping (which he is more likely to do to impress his MIL!)
pineapple / 12053 posts
I'm one of 3 and I think I could handle it! That's what we're planning on so we'll see after #2 gets here.
cherry / 189 posts
yep! both my husband and i are only children and i'm currently preg with our second!
clementine / 854 posts
My mom had 3 - so I say yes. My grandmothers though? No way. One grandma had 6 kids, the other 7. That's too much!
persimmon / 1343 posts
Nooooooo way. My mom had 4 (one died during birth) and I can barely imagine more than 1!
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