you found out the gender? We didn't.
We were extremely happy but just not moved to tears. People keep asking if we cried and I feel a little weird saying... nope.
you found out the gender? We didn't.
We were extremely happy but just not moved to tears. People keep asking if we cried and I feel a little weird saying... nope.
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GOLD / squash / 13464 posts
Well... we did both cry. But we were Team Green so we were mostly crying because she was here, and not so much just because she was girl.
grapefruit / 4823 posts
I got teary-eyed with DS, because even though he wouldn't say it, I knew my husband wanted a boy, and I was so happy he was going to be getting a son.
When we found out #2 was a girl, I cried! the tech even gave me a tissue, because there was no doubt I was crying. I was so excited we were having a little girl.
ETA: my husband didn't cry...not one bit. he's not a crier
bananas / 9227 posts
I don't remember. I think we were teary eyed just seeing the ultrasounds. I really wanted a girl though and was scared to jinx it!
pomelo / 5073 posts
I cried when she was born and it was for sure a girl. I think I've cried more now that she is here because I think of things she will do: pick Out a wedding gown, go to college, dance with her daddy at her wedding, stuff like that.
persimmon / 1150 posts
sadly, I was a little disappointed...so definitely didn't cry.
*Totally love her and wouldn't have it any other way! It just took me a while to adjust.
persimmon / 1281 posts
@autumnlove: hmm what were your emotions when you cried?
@sarbear: i feel u! i felt relief when we found out it was a boy because I knew it would make my husband sooo happy.
GOLD / papaya / 10206 posts
We cried, but it was because she was JUST born and we were pretty emotional lol
hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts
@Glitter: I was kinda disappointed...I really wanted a boy! But I think I'll be ok if we have another girl for #3.
Congrats!!!!
persimmon / 1281 posts
@autumnlove: I understand. I really wanted a girl, but the fact that DH was getting his wish kept me from being disappointed.
Thank you!
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
We were team green so we were pretty teary but more because she was finally here, not because she was a girl. It was more surprise, because we were sure it was a boy.
Later on I cried a LOT thinking of all the things we will get to do together- pick out prom dress, wedding dress, dance with Dh at her wedding. I think deep deep deep down I always wanted a daughter but was so convinced she was a boy I never thought it, so when I realized I got all those things with her, plus post partum hormones.... Lots of tears.
nectarine / 2886 posts
No crying. I was really happy but more surprised! I was convinced I was having a boy so when the doctor told me the baby was a girl (via the 20 wk anatomy scan), all I could say was "Really???" and he asked "uh is that okay?"
GOLD / watermelon / 14076 posts
No, but I wanted a girl so I screamed with excitement. But no tears!
pomegranate / 3003 posts
We were both teary eyed, and thrilled. I was convinced we were having a girl, and the affirmation was a little overwhelming.
pineapple / 12234 posts
With my first, I did because I had no clue what to do with a boy! I grew up with three sisters. After a few weeks, I was so excited about having a boy.
With my second, I was sure it was a boy, and honestly overwhelmed when we found out it was a girl because we had to buy all new clothes.
Now, with my third, I really would like a girl so we can save money and use every thing girly we already have (clothing isn't old as DD is only 17 months). But I'll be happy either way.
nectarine / 2220 posts
We were team green, but my dr's secretary accidentally gave me some paperwork with the gender on it while I was at an appointment by myself. So I was too shocked to cry.
And then had to keep it a secret for the rest of pregnancy because my husband didn't want to know. He found out at the birth so I did cry a little bit then.
persimmon / 1281 posts
@betsyboop: haha that's funny!
@Sapphiresun: Wow I would have been kinda upset if I found out accidentally after trying to be patient, but I guess sometimes these things happen.
cantaloupe / 6692 posts
Yes! I cried happy tears. And continued to cry the rest of the day when I told friends and family. DH didn't cry but he was definitely excited.
pomegranate / 3577 posts
We were shocked! We thought we were having a girl (based on a previous ultrasound). DH just stared and stared at the screen with the sweetest expression on his face.
pear / 1642 posts
I didn't cry, but DH did! He wanted a boy so badly that when we saw girl parts, I was worried he'd be dissappointed. He was actually thrilled to have a daddy's girl and cried big, fat, happy tears! I was shocked and excited, but didn't tear up. I think I giggled all day though
bananas / 9118 posts
Nope, but the second time around I got a little more excited/sentimental because I understood what having another boy meant and it was exactly what we wanted.
pomelo / 5469 posts
Not right away, but in the couple of days that followed, yes. We were convinced we were having a boy and had gotten so used to that idea-- then at 17wks we found out she was a she. It felt like we didn't know who the baby was anymore!
Writing that sounds a little crazy looking back!
coconut / 8279 posts
@autumnlove: my DH almost cried finding out we were having a boy, in a disappointed way
I didn't cry
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
I screamed are you serious? I really wanted a girl and so glad I got one! I cried during our first ultrasound that there was a heartbeat.
hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts
@HLK208: @lemondrop: So excited for your babies!!!!
@rachiecakes: I tried to hide it from DH and the tech but I ended up bawling!
coconut / 8681 posts
@sarbear: Same!!
I was emotional for DH when we found out #1 was a boy because that's what he really wanted. I cried when we found out #2 was a girl because I've always really wanted a daughter.
pomelo / 5326 posts
We both were a little teary, but also were Team Green so I think we were just thrilled she was finally here, but would have been just as teary with a boy.
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
I actually did, because I found out over the phone that there were no chromosomal issues and that she was a girl. So full blown tears were already in effect!
cantaloupe / 6086 posts
I cried at that ultrasound but just because I was happy to have a healthy baby. I do think the gender made it all feel more real to me too.
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