I only got spanked a few times. My parents liked to discipline with threats of spanking.
I only got spanked a few times. My parents liked to discipline with threats of spanking.
nectarine / 2765 posts
I did, not often, but I did. We also knew that if they threatened spanking, they would always follow through, even if that meant waiting for my dad to come home from work, hours later. I'd always hope they'd forgotten, but alas, they never did.
watermelon / 14467 posts
Yes I did. It was usually used as a last resort. A lot of the time, especially if we were out in public, my parents saying, "Would you like to go out to the car?" was enough to get us to stop acting up, because we knew that if we went to the car, we were getting a spanking.
pear / 1799 posts
I did. Maybe 6 times in my life. I remember what I did each time, so maybe it was effective?? I was a good kid though, and mostly, I just got grounded.
GOLD / wonderful pomegranate / 28905 posts
I never was nor threatened. But my brothers were.
coconut / 8305 posts
A handful of times.. I got empty threats of them alot more than actual spankings.
blogger / coconut / 8306 posts
We had a paddle. It was passed down from generation to generation, and brought over from Italy.
Never used but all dad had to say was that he was getting the paddle & good lord we went running.
bananas / 9899 posts
Not often, and not really hard or long or anything. Sometimes I got a quick swat on the butt if I was being a real brat.
squash / 13199 posts
Yes I did get spanked. I think it was effective form of punishment because it wasnt overused
@LMOG47: Haha I would always hope they forgot too, but yeah they never did
pineapple / 12526 posts
A few times. It was a last resort punishment. I could probably count on one hand. It was a very effective punishment for me.
honeydew / 7283 posts
Never.
My parents were strict and I knew there were consequences for misbehaving, but nothing physical.
blogger / pineapple / 12381 posts
I did. It was not a good plan for me!
I should say that evidence shows that spanking is not good for children in general.
clementine / 984 posts
Yep, we all did. Mom used it effectively and I can barely remember the number of times. Our father was harsh and was more from anger. If we do ever spank, it will be VERY sparingly and only after we have had our own time-out, as well.
coconut / 8483 posts
No... but probably between 5-10 times we were slapped across the face when being mouthy by my mom. It was horrible. I don't know why she did it! My mom is like my BFF so it didn't harm us in the long run, but I will never do it!
honeydew / 7091 posts
Oh yeah. That was pretty much our main form of punishment. I wouldn't say it was often though, because we were pretty good kids. It was effective on me, not at all effective on my sister.
cantaloupe / 6800 posts
I was, but my sister was more often. I say it was effective for both of us actually, she learned her lesson from being spanked and I knew what not to do by watching her get spanking for doing xyz.
clementine / 899 posts
@Mrs. Champagne: I was slapped as well. Pretty sure I slapped her first, though. I was a terrible kid.
I did get spanked a few times. I had my mouth washed out with dish soap as well. My dad cracked me across the head once, but only because he saw me do it my brother and thought I should see how it felt. I saw stars. There was also a lot of yelling in my family household.
I hope I will be able to hold my temper better then my parents did. I won't say that I will never spank my children, but it will be a last resort. More of a threat, but one that I will follow through with in an appropriate manner.
GOLD / papaya / 10166 posts
I did - not much, but it definitely was needed when I got it. I could be a brat sometimes.
pomelo / 5257 posts
Never. My mom once threatened to spank my sister when she was about three and my sister shot back, "You don't BELIEVE in spanking." Lol, she was right...
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
No. I think my brother did a few times but only for things where he was actually being dangerous and hurting his sisters.
I do not plan to spank my kids. The only time I could ever see it is if they are doing something truly dangerous and all other discipline hasn't worked. I was a really good easy going kid, but Dh was a bit of a hellion sometimes so we will see who she takes after.
papaya / 10473 posts
Yep, and I think it was a bad choice for my personality type. I don't think I'll ever to able to hit my child in good conscience.
pomelo / 5257 posts
@Foodnerd81: yeah, a little TOO smart sometimes, haha, but she turned out alright
GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts
Twice. Once for saying "f*ck" when I was 3 (as if I knew it was a curse word and thought it'd be fun to say...) and I don't remember why the second time.
grapefruit / 4817 posts
I got popped on the butt as a toddler, so I'm told, but no spanking once I was old enough to get more effective and age appropriate punishments. I got slapped twice, and I deserved it both times. I laughed about it with my mom within a few days because hitting is so not my mom's cup of tea and I know she went in her room and cried both times.
GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts
Only a few times, it was more of a threat, the only time we got spanked was if it was really bad (usually involved ruining new carpet...I was the queen of staining it after being warned!)
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