DD has a tough birthday month. Could be really bad weather and I can't decide if I want to do a party or not.
Need to get on it if I want to do one.
Multiple votes for multiple children.
DD has a tough birthday month. Could be really bad weather and I can't decide if I want to do a party or not.
Need to get on it if I want to do one.
Multiple votes for multiple children.
105 votes
pomegranate / 3577 posts
I voted no, because it was just the three of us. I did put up a cute felt "Happy Birthday" banner, and E opened gifts, but we didn't make a big deal of it. In the end it was perfect for something he's not going to remember anyway!
nectarine / 2521 posts
I voted yes, but it was more of a family dinner with a cake thrown in for my LO. It was fun and easy.
GOLD / wonderful pomegranate / 28905 posts
Yup! We sure did. I never had birthday parties growing up so it's important to me. It was family and close friends.
Will be throwing DD 2 a 1st birthday party too.
: @matador84: doesn't have to be be extravagant. Can just be you guys and close family.
pomelo / 5660 posts
Yes, we had a big 1st birthday. We had smaller 2nd birthday. 3rd birthday will be big.
persimmon / 1188 posts
Yes, we did a really big first birthday party, it was a little crazy but we won't do anything too big for future birthdays. Probably just our parents and sisters next year!
cherry / 168 posts
Yes DS had a big 1st bday party with all extended family (mine and DH's aunties, uncles, cousins etc as well) and 5 friends from his playgroup & their familes. I think there was over 60 people in the end. But we will keep to only close family for his other birthdays.
DS's birthday is the middle of winter but we got very lucky and got a warmish still day so could have it outside on our deck. He loves the water and swimming so we are thinking in years to come he can maybe have a few indoor swimming pool parties.
papaya / 10343 posts
We definitely will for her first birthday. We will at least do grandparents and her aunts/uncle. Undecided if we'll invite our friends or not, but I do want to celebrate with our families at least.
papaya / 10560 posts
@regberadaisy: I am thinking if we have one it would just be our friends! We had a huge turnout for DS birthday party....I don't even want people to bring gifts. We have enough stuff!
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
Kind of. I didn't plan or host a party, but on her bday my BIL and his gf, the only local family, came over for cake and singing and presents. Then a few weeks after dh's side had a family reunion and they planned a party for her, so I had nothing to do with it really but she was well celebrated. Then a week or so after than I went to visit my family and my sister hosted a bday brunch. So I never planned a party but she definitely got to celebrate and be the center of attention.
Eta: I would have liked to have a party with close friends but our condo is too small and we didn't have anywhere else we wanted to have something low key, and we didn't want to do a big to do.
eggplant / 11716 posts
I voted yes, but we actually had two family parties: one laid back barbeque with my side of the family, and one larger party with DH's (huge) extended family in Canada a couple of weeks later.
But all family.
nectarine / 2964 posts
I voted yes but it wasn't really a formal party - it was more of a get-together at a friend's house with my friends who have same age babies. I think we just each brought a dish. We had a very quick DIY photoshoot (with white backdrop, bunting and party hats, matching white onesies) where we posed the babies with the cake. And unfortunately my LO threw a tantrum and basically stepped on the cake on the photoshoot, so no one ate any cake. haha.
2 of my friends at that get-together had their own parties afterwards with their extended families. And we have a difficult birthday month too (end of January). However 1 year old is much easier because they are basically content at a boring indoor environment. You can do it at a restaurant if you want. It is a different story beyond that age.
hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts
Family party for LO 1 and a big party for LO 2.
persimmon / 1355 posts
Two actually. One was a family dinner and the other was our close friends. Neither were a big, all out Pinterest type of party though.
nectarine / 2974 posts
Yep! It was just at our place(2 bedroom condo) ended up being about 20 adults plus like 5-6 kids. I'm glad we did it though, it was fun to celebrate.
pineapple / 12053 posts
Yep! We love to throw parties and it was a celebration for us as well as her!
grapefruit / 4441 posts
I tried! I went all out with the DIY decor and food, but then it snowed 8" the morning of her party and only 4 out of 35 guests made it - my in-laws who were staying with us and a couple that lived down the road! I was so bummed because I worked so hard! LO still ate cake though and had a fun day. We did end up having a redo the following weekend, but only 10 people made it to that one.
If I had to do it over again, I'd buy the decor and put the food together once I saw the forcast. That's what I did this time around for her 2nd bday, which was less stressful and still had some cute details.
pineapple / 12566 posts
No. My ILs flew in for both of their 1st birthdays and we just had dinner and cake.
grapefruit / 4997 posts
Yes, it was a big celebration with family and friends and their kids. We had a small one for her on the day of with cake and balloons with our next door neighbor's family. The big party was the weekend after. It was a fun get together for our friends and family who wanted to see how big she had grown. If it's a tough birthday month, you can always throw it a couple of weeks later. It can be as simple or as festive as you want it. Baby won't remember it at all. For us, it was a celebration as well as a get together to see family and friends that we had not seen in a long time.
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
Yep, it's a huge celebration in our culture. We will do the same for LO#2.
We had a small, just family dinner for his second birthday
apricot / 490 posts
@Purpledaisy: We're in a two bedroom apartment and I am struggling with how many people to invite with how many our apartment can comfortably hold!
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
Yep, big party with friends and family. And it was april and it was nice to do something spring-y
pomelo / 5678 posts
Nope just with us! We went to the zoo and carousel and she got presents, balloons, birthday hat and cake.
cantaloupe / 6692 posts
I'm planning T's first birthday right now. I'm going a little bit overboard but I'm excited. Haha
pomegranate / 3113 posts
Not really. We got her a cupcake and Skyped with my parents while we sang happy birthday, and then opened the gifts my parents had sent (well, I opened them for her, she couldn't have cared less). I wanted to have a bigger party, just friends and their kids since we have no family here, but for various reasons the timing was bad and I just wasn't able to pull it off. Once she's old enough to know what's going on, I'll make sure it happens, though.
bananas / 9118 posts
Small- family only! Out to brunch, then home for cupcakes and presents.
pomelo / 5791 posts
Yup, we had a relatively big one. It's hard, since his bday is in Feb and it's cold, so we had it at my mom's house (which is bigger). We will have one for future LOs as well.
pear / 1531 posts
LO turns 1 in 3 weeks, but I am still on the fence about whether to do anything. I just lost my brother and don't have it in me to do the planning. I really don't have the energy to make a big deal out of it. But a small family only party is too awkward due to my husband's parents being divorced and my family being out of town. So I guess I keep seeking permission from myself (and my MIL) to just do something with the three of us.
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