I had my NT scan yesterday (closer to 13 weeks than 12). The ultrasound tech seemed really knowledgable. We asked. Kind of jokingly, if he could tell the gender. He explained that he couldn't at this point, but that there is a small bit of flesh near the baby's rump, and the direction it points (either up or out) can be associated with gender. Based on that, he guessed girl but said it was a 60/40 guess.
We tried to look this up online but couldn't find anything. Did anyone else hear anything like that?