I don't even really know what I am asking...but you folks always have the answer.

So I have never been to Disney, and my husband went only once when he was 13 and hated it because he was 13 and hated everything.

We want to take our kids. I am super intimidated by the idea of going to WDW, and we are leaning toward DL. Here is why:
-the smaller size of DL would mean that we could 'do' the whole park in 3 days-ish and not feel rushed or worried about missing things
-we would then be able to take a day or two to Legoland, a day at the beach and then come home
-our 'plan' was to go to DL this year, and then in a couple of years go to WDW when the kids are older (they are 3 and 5 now) and would be more interested in other aspects of the park
-no matter where we go, we would stay on resort

But then we started pricing it out, and for us to go to DL for 3 nights (4 day park hopper ticket) is slightly more than 7 days at WDW with free dining and park hopper tickets.

...but then we go back to our original plan. Opinions?