A single friend just asked me this.
I told her, never.
A single friend just asked me this.
I told her, never.
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wonderful pea / 17279 posts
No. He is the love of my life and the only person I can imagine creating another life with.
pineapple / 12526 posts
I will not lie and say there haven't been times that I've though "oh, this would be easier/faster or I would be doing this or that if I hadn't gotten married".
It's never been actual regret though.
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
Never ever. I can't imagine life without my husband.
GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts
I have tons of regrets about things I have and/or haven't done, but marrying my husband is never one of them.
cantaloupe / 6692 posts
Love my life with my husband. There have been times where I think "If I never got married I could do such and such..." But that doesn't last long. Nothing is better than where I'm at right now.
blogger / pineapple / 12381 posts
One of the best things to ever happen to me besides the girls. Had I know how great it was, I might have wanted to do it sooner... but I guess all things happen in their own time!
hostess / eggplant / 11068 posts
No way! I love it! The first year was so so hard for me but I never regretted it, ever!
honeydew / 7283 posts
Never.
Especially now that I've seen DH with M. During the newborn stage I pretty much thought the only thing I had ever done right was marrying this man
nectarine / 2932 posts
No way!
I do however kind of regret not dating around more before I met my DH. But that's because he's quite a bit older than me and he has had a lot more experience in long-term relationships. But I have never regretted getting married!!
honeydew / 7091 posts
Never *regret* it. I do have sad moments where I wonder what life would be like if I never met him and got to stay by my family and raise kids near my parents. I think that's pretty natural though.
GOLD / cantaloupe / 6581 posts
No. He is the best thing that ever happened to me. Sometimes I wish parts of our marriage were different, but I have never regretted marrying him.
GOLD / cantaloupe / 6703 posts
I don't regret it, but I do sometimes think about how different things would be, not with another guy, but if we had waited or gotten different jobs. He was my first love and still is.
grapefruit / 4400 posts
@Littlebit: Ditto! Not about the age difference, but we're each other's first loves/high school sweethearts. I kinda wish sometimes that I could have had my "slutty college years."
bananas / 9229 posts
Never. As today's anniversary post on FB says, it was the best and easiest decision I've ever made.
persimmon / 1178 posts
Hm. I was torn regarding how to answer. We married youngish (I was 22) and have been married 13 years, so of course there have been times when I considered that road not taken (aka- singlehood) but not as in I wish I could go back and do it differently.
BUT, there have been times when the burden of having my well being yoked to someone else was overwhelmingly hard and I considered separating. Like when he was making terrible career choices and struggling with a mid-life crisis (LAME).
In the end, though, I marked 'never', because even if we were to eventually divorce (not likely, but it happens) I still don't regret the years we have had together thus far. Marrying him was the best choice I have ever made.
pear / 1799 posts
I LOVE being married ... Never regretted it.
We have talked about the fact that we wish opposite-sex couples could have a civil union in Oregon ...
So not regretting my actual marriage, just wish that we were part of something that EVERYONE could be a part of.
coconut / 8079 posts
@LindsayInNY: happy anniversary!
Never, ever regretted it, not even for a second.
blogger / pomelo / 5361 posts
Not once. Not to say that we have had no struggles or had no issues to work through, but I would take him on our bad days any day of the week over life with any one else. I may not make every single decision correctly, but that is one choice that was rather brilliant on my part! Having kids has made me even more thankful to be married to a good man.
coffee bean / 48 posts
Nope! He drives me crazy sometimes but I can't imagine life without him.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
Yes. We got married too young... rather, I was too young. I should have waited.
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