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Do you have guns in your house?

  • poll: Do you have guns in your house?
    Yes : (68 votes)
    28 %
    No : (173 votes)
    72 %
  1. Winterbee15

    cherry / 167 posts

    DH is in LE and hunts so, yes, definitely.

  2. hummusgirl

    persimmon / 1233 posts

    @ChiCalGoBee: Agree completely on the outdated law thing. This is a great PSA that gets to that issue:


  3. MOMTOLITTLEB

    persimmon / 1188 posts

    No, my husband wouldn't be opposed to owning one but he never has and would of course need proper training. It doesn't matter because I am completely against it.

  4. looch

    wonderful pear / 26210 posts

    No, we do not have any guns in our house. My husband is former military (he served in Switzerland) and I think they have a great model. You can have a gun, in fact, most men have one in their home, but the only way you can get ammunition is from the military, when you report for active duty.

    They are also very strict about people crossing into the country and there is no black market.

  5. LuLu Mom

    GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts

    We have hunting riffles and shotguns, in a locked gun safe in our basement. In our area guns are very common, I grew up around them and you better believe we were taught gun safety and I do the same with my children. I knew very well growing up that you NEVER touch the guns in our house, and we had them everywhere as my dad is a collector of vintage riffles and such. It was ingrained in our brains as it is and will be in our children.

  6. josina

    pomegranate / 3973 posts

    My husband hunts and has several rifles and 2 pistols, some inherited from his grandfather. They are all unloaded and locked in a safe in the basement.
    Owning a gun means you have to be vigilant about safety, when you're using it, and when you're not. I can't even grasp the idea of people leaving loaded guns around for their children to find and play with.

  7. mrsrain

    nectarine / 2115 posts

    No guns allowed in our home. Statistically someone is significantly more likely to die by gun (suicide/honicide/accident) if there is a gun in the home. Since we are not hunters, we have no reasonable cause to bring a gun into our home and I'm armament that we continue that way. At least until the zombie apocalypse.

  8. avivoca

    watermelon / 14467 posts

    I'm against guns in the home. I wasn't raised around them, I don't know how to handle them, and I really don't want to know. The thought of my child being able to get her hands on a gun terrifies me. The only gun in our house is an air soft gun that my husband used for paintball and we don't have any cartridges for it. I'm not comfortable with firearms in the house. It's something we disagree on and his family doesn't understand why I'm against it.

  9. Dr. Pepper

    apricot / 461 posts

    Yes. We have several. Too many to count. Probably at least 15? They are all my husbands, so I stopped paying attention. We acquire at least 1 new gun each year. Last year it was our first hand gun! That one I have actually shot. I will not shoot the rifles, shotguns, or anything big. I actually hate guns and am scared of them. But, my husband grew up around guns and is a avid hunter and outdoorsman. When we were pregnant with our first child, he went out on his own and bought a LARGE gun safe. While it isn't pretty in our basement, I love that he is diligent about gun safety and keeping the guns away from our child and me. He still wants to get me a small handgun to keep upstairs in case someone breaks into our house, but since I am afraid of guns, I have said no.

  10. travelgirl1

    cantaloupe / 6630 posts

    Nope. We won't be allowing toy guns (apart from water pistols) either.

  11. yoursilverlining

    eggplant / 11824 posts

    No guns in our home. Neither of us hunt or do sport-shooting, so we have no need for guns, and IMO the statistical evidence is pretty clear on guns in the home and whether they actually make you any safer. If we had guns, they would be unloaded and locked up apart from ammo…..which means they wouldn't do us much good in an imminent and intimate attack from someone. I know how to handle a hand gun and I’m not afraid to shoot one, but I have zero interest in ever having them in my home – especially with kids.

  12. rattles

    grapefruit / 4903 posts

    We don't. They were standard issue in a former office of mine though, and I enjoy shooting at the range with my dad for sport. (My parents do have guns, and they've always been adamant about gun safety.) At this stage of life, it's not a priority worth the hassle, risk and expense for me.

  13. mrsvdv

    apricot / 431 posts

    No. Guns really scare me and I would not be comfortable if I knew my child was in a home where there are guns.

  14. yin

    honeydew / 7917 posts

    No, and I honestly don't know any family or close friends who own guns.

  15. Autumnmama79

    pear / 1703 posts

    No. We are in Canada and not part of any gun culture.

  16. Cherrybee

    papaya / 10570 posts

    Recent stats show that there are 138,728 people certificated to hold firearms in England and Wales out of a possible 56.6 million people. I'm not one of them and neither is DH!

  17. Mrs D

    grapefruit / 4545 posts

    We do not. DH is adamently opposed to guns in a house without a specific reason (i.e. LE, hunting, etc). I generally am supportive of responsible gun ownership.

    Both my parents have guns. Dad has one - no bullets in the house/weapon is unloaded and kept on the top shelf of his closet. I honestly think he just doesnt know where to get rid of it. Step Dad has several - they are kept in a locked safe, behind multiple doors. My mother is very conscious of grandchildren and hypersensitive about keeping the guns locked away. She did indicate that the other night there was execessive police searching activity in their neighborhood (3 helicopters with spot lights) and my step father got the gun out and put it on the night stand. I told her I understood and reminded her that if DD happened to be at the house I would hope the safety would be on and it would be place in the nightstand drawer - then locked up again immediately when the "concern" was gone.

    I plan to learn how to fire a gun bc personally I think it just makes sense. We will never have toy guns in our home (we will only have daughters - so maybe it will never be an issue) and I will not allow my kids to play video games where guns are glorified.

  18. Pepper

    pomelo / 5820 posts

    No, and we never will.

  19. .twist.

    pineapple / 12802 posts

    Nope and it's not something I ever see happening in our household.

  20. MCD919

    kiwi / 659 posts

    No. DH and I are both against guns in the home. Our close family and friends don't have any either.

  21. JoJoGirl

    cantaloupe / 6206 posts

    No, and no toy guns either. I was raise the same way (no toy guns or "playing guns").. DH is Canadian so aligns with me around this.

  22. ShootingStar

    coconut / 8472 posts

    @Oxana: So I can't really conceptualize why someone would need to carry a concealed weapon. Do you live in a really bad area? Are people regularly assaulted?

    I have never once in my life felt the need to be armed, and never known any ever to be in a situation that called for it either. I've lived in the suburbs, in the city of Boston, and practically lived in NYC for a while.

  23. Oxana

    cherry / 133 posts

    @ShootingStar: I think the latest studies show that about three million people use guns in cases of self-defense each year. That's significant. Carrying concealed is important to me both as a preventative and a proactive means of defense. They've surveyed incarcerated violent criminals with the question of what might make them hesitate to break into a home or rob a person, and their responses ranked an armed victim much, much higher than prospective jail time. The fact that a minority of the population is armed actually safeguards the entire populace as a whole to a degree, because it makes criminals more hesitant to attack (though of course doesn't eliminate it) and if they do attack, there are lots of instances where a concealed carrying citizen stops the shooter. That's why so many mass shootings happen in schools and college campuses, because the shooter knows that carrying firearms is illegal at those places and they're betting that they will be the only person around with a gun for a good fifteen minutes until the cops show up.

    Speaking of cops, I have a good friend in law enforcement. He will be the first to tell you that people seem to think that you should call the police when something bad happens so that they can intervene on your behalf, but that almost never happens. Police usually aren't able to get to the scene until after the fact. They find out what has happened and try to track down the criminal after he's fled, but unless the criminal actually wants to die by getting in a fire fight with police, they almost always flee. The national average response time for the police to get to the scene after a call has been made is nine minutes. It's closer to 20 minutes in some cities. Even with a great time of, say, 5 minutes, that's more than enough time for someone to kill several people. Here's a video of a woman who had a conceal carry permit, but because at the time in her state she wasn't allowed to carry it into a restuarant, she left it in her car. It's worth a watch.



    I don't want to make this about anecdotes, but it is relevant to why I carry today, so I'll share. When I was 14, I was attacked in a mall. I was in plain view of at least 20 people who walked by, who saw and heard me crying for help. My little sister was nearby, sobbing. A few of those people pulled out their cell phones to presumably call the authorities, but no one stopped to actually help me. Not even a group of college aged guys that could have ganged up on the guy. Most looked shocked and unsure as to what to do, because they had never prepared themselves to deal with a situation like that. It didn't matter that a couple of them called the cops, because by the time they rolled into the parking lot, my assailant had already dragged me into their car and was driving away.

    My attacker didn't have a knife or a gun. He relied on brute force. There's no way to know what might have happened if one of those onlookers had been carrying a gun, but like the lady in the video said, the odds would have sure as hell been a lot more in my favor. There's a good chance that the person would not have had to use the gun at all--just pointing it at my attacker and using it as a way to level the playing field would have probably been enough to hold him until the police arrived.

    You ask about whether I live in a bad neighborhood. The place where I was assaulted was a great neighborhood. I don't carry a gun because I believe that I am going to get in a gun fight tomorrow. I know that statistically, I'll probably never have to use it. I hope that's true, anyway. But if I get really unlucky, or if I see someone who was in a situation like the one I was in, I want to be prepared to help and not just stand by helplessly. And even if I never use it, like I said, the fear of their victims fighting back is a huge disincentive for criminals, and I want to play my part in that.

  24. Chillybear

    pomegranate / 3032 posts

    We have no guns in our home and have no intention of ever having one.

    My dad in the last 10-12 years began working for a client as the manager of a gun range (by trade he's a graphic designer who does mostly billboard work, the family that owns the range owns the majority of billbords near us and also owns a golf course) Through managing the range's members and website, he's sits through the new member safety course twice a month, he's trained and certified to shoot and owns 2 guns that he keeps stored at the range, my brother also has 2-3 guns that he keeps at the range (because where else would he need them?).

    My inlaws on the other hand own many guns for "protection" and about 6 months ago we had a huge blow up in the family when my husband and his brother discovered they were keeping a loaded handgun in the nightstand of their rancher home. I flipped my sh*t because less than a month before that they had my 18m old LO at their house for a few nights while we were on vacation. She no longer is allowed at their house with out me or my husband present.

  25. SugarplumsMom

    bananas / 9227 posts

    Nope. Guns (except for hunting rifles) are illegal where we live.

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