I knew parenting wasn't going to be a walk in the park, but it's definitely harder than I imagined!
I knew parenting wasn't going to be a walk in the park, but it's definitely harder than I imagined!
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
It's harder. I feel like it's getting harder as LO gets older..
So easy when they're babies and have no idea what's going on!
pomegranate / 3983 posts
I think easier. It seemed like there was so much to it before I had LO. Don't get me wrong, there are definitely challenges, but I feel very much in my element, like I was always meant to be a mom.
cantaloupe / 6751 posts
Hmm, I think it comes more naturally than I thought it would, but it's definitely hard... and I agree w/@Chopsuey119 that it gets harder as LO gets older!
honeydew / 7444 posts
@Baby Boy Mom: i feel the same way you do. even though i have my moments where i want to pull my hair out, i feel like things are easier than i expected. when i find my groove, i definitely feel like i'm in my element. of course, if you asked me this 4 months ago, i would've looked at you zombified.
pineapple / 12526 posts
Easier. I was so paranoid that I was going to be a terrible mom and scar her for life. I think parenting is a lot more instinctual than I thought it would be.
admin / wonderful grape / 20724 posts
@chopsuey119: I'm kind of the opposite... struggled when they were babies, but am finding it a lot easier as they get older!
GOLD / wonderful coffee bean / 18478 posts
It's probably harder than I thought but in ways that I didn't anticipate/understand prior to becoming a parent.
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
@mrbee: I mean harder as in.. Having to discipline, making sure to instill good values and morals, more responsibility..! Ahhhh
hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts
Easier right now but I'm sure it gets a lot harder when they get older and need to be disciplined!
pomegranate / 3383 posts
Much harder. I think I had a romanticized version of mommyhood before LO and I always said I was born to be a mom. Once LO was born, it definitely wasn't all puppies and rainbows (and it still isn't!) and I think it was in large part due to his temperament.
If you've got an easier baby then parenthood is most likely easier than you thought it'd be. If your baby is spirited like mine, then it's probably more challenging!
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