My in laws are watching LO while we go away for the night. Even though they only live just down the road they want to stay here. I put off cleaning earlier this week because I work from home and need the naps for work purpose plus frankly there's no point, he will destroy the house and then I'd have to do it all over again. So I'm here today and I'm just overwhelmed. Things I wouldn't have had to do if they would be willing to have him at their house I have to do like buy groceries for everyone and of course clean and do the beds etc., plus make sure everything is labeled and clear/available to them. Plus deep cleaning that I don't ever do for guests like clean the refrigerator out because they are going to be preparing food. Then packing us up to go. This would have been so much easier if they would have just let us drop him off. I don't know why this is overhauling me so much but at this point I wish we weren't even going, this is just too stressful for one night away.