What are your best tips for creating regular one on one time with your kids? I feel like DD1 gets what she needs because she is older and therefore more verbal and sleeps less but DD2 really could use some more TLC. She's 17 months. I do my best to make nap and bed time routine just us. I try my best to focus on her as much as I can but sometimes I just don't feel like there is time! I'm often feeling sadness and longing when I think of my relationship with her and I'd like to take steps to make us a priority.